Such a bad situation I hate my wife...but cant leave my kids....seems like a life in a prison...
Divorce. Joint custody.
Sorry to hear that man. Have you talked openly about your feelings? Direct communication helps a lot
Yes, telling her he hates her is sure to help.
You clearly don’t know how to communicate in relationships. Obviously telling her he hates her won’t help, but there are ways to express feelings in a delicate way
I'll never understand people not willing to take a jump and do shared custody . Why is that so bad, if you're not happy leave you're wife. If you're not willing to work on it don't stay just for your kids. You'll be miserable, they'll know it and they'll be miserable to. Kids aren't dumb they can see these things.
Divorce is super expensive, complicated, nasty, traumatizing for kids, and humiliating in most cultures. But yeah, better than marriage hell.
Omg you sound like my parents. And thanks to them I have severe anxiety and depression so get your head out of your ass and do the right thing
More details needed. Why do you hate your wife? You TC? Her TC? How many kids? Their ages?
rly only TC tho
It’s worse for your kids to be stuck with parents who hate each other. Get a divorce so that you CAN be with your kids. Idiot
You deserve to be called much worse things for carelessly bringing children into this world and forcing them to live in a house with parents who hate each other. I can only imagine what fools they see you both as.
You’re not leaving your kids. You’re leaving your wife. You’re actually doing a disservice to your kids by remaining in the relationship.
My parents were never happy. Living in their parents’ hatred can damage the kids physiologically. They ought to learn the reality of relationships anyway. You can have a strong bond with your kids and help them understand the whole thing and slowly opt out. You can’t be there much for them if you’re in an emotional hell anyway
Lemme guess, not having sex? $50 says you talk to your wife, say you need sex every other day to be happy, and your marriage will improve dramatically. And yes, stay with your spouse. Divorce is fucking terrible on your kids. There’s a reason why 94% of mass shooters don’t have a father in the home.
You sound pretty awful "just demand sex and stay in a loveless marriage and impose psychological disorders on your kids" - that's really your advice?
@Intel - please don’t ever have children .
Not worth it with kids to divorce. You won’t see them as much and it will fuck them up. Unless it’s downright awful and unfixable, seriously, find a way to make it work.
Therapy help?