My work require me to be always flying around to other country project. In one of the project, I worked with one team leader that have a very strong character. Whenever I've tried to put forward a comment for improvement or suggestions, she will tend to argue with me. At last I will be spending 30 minutes to get 1 point accepted by her. If she didn't accept it, the whole operation team won't start it. After almost 6 months, I feel that we are getting closer professional and personally. First I though because she always argue with me and end up spending time just to persuade her caused the closeness but sometimes at one point I feel being used. I am from regional team and tend to know more from group level. However, I can't denied it.. I do have feelings for her and I don't want to have this kind of feelings (especially with foreigns friends). Mind you she is married and the husband worked in other country. Plus I am also a woman with a boyfriend planning for marriage soon (yeah.. I think I am bisexual). What should I do?
Are you chinese? Transfer to another team/project. Career suicide if you reveal your feelings. If you were a man different story. If things go bad company will ruin you.
No, I am not a Chinese. Yes, I have been thinking to move to another project
good on you, and not being in China should make transfer easier
You’re suffering from misattribution of attraction (Google it if you don’t believe me). Basically you’re misattributing high heart rate and high number of thoughts around a person as attraction. Be cognizant of this and you’ll realize you’re attraction towards her is a figment if imagination.
Wooo.. This one really help. I will need to look at this logically
Don't shit where you eat.
Career Suicide time to move on.
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Shauleeeen, focking hell. Tis woman has crush on me. What shoul a to?
Fuck her?
As a male, I sure hope none of the coworkers I've spent hours going back and forth on projects with feel this way about me 🤮
Send an invitation to a non company event and have a good drinking session with her.
The thing is since I am a foreigner in het country, she usually invited me out but I will always try not to go.
Nice twist in the story at the end
Either troll because girl on girl, or real but either way don’t do it