You will always reach the same, deserted state. No matter how much humor you mix into your messages or your interesting experiences or ideas for interesting activities, the girls give the same, desolated outcome. It's a wasted effort. Your energy is literally being poured into a sinkhole. You will probably never see it again.
I mean, maybe it's great to do that so you Sharon your language skills. But for what? It's still a sinkhole. No one appreciates what you do. In fact, it's highly likely that someone will take what you do and attach a negative spin on that and damage you even further.