How do you initiate conversations with girls you meet on dating apps? I'm good at making the first move and ask them out. And meet for coffee or dinner. Even the second time. And it has worked out well mostly. But then, either I run out of conversations or the feeling of rejection kicks in and I try to not ask the girl out/ wait for the girl to reach out. And the girls I've met on apps never initiated the conversation (most of them) which finally ends up with me stalking them on Social Media, hoping things will work out somehow. Anyone been in this state? How did you overcome this? @NerdHere TC - 165K
Keep asking questions. Simple as that.
It's not when I'm with the girl. When I'm with someone, I'm able to keep the conversation going. This is when you want to ask them out after you've met a couple of times.
Text and ask to go on a date. Same as you did the first time. Stop playing games. If you like them, then show it and ask them out. If you dont, on to the next.
Do the same thing you do when you mert a girl IRL.
Same desolated deprivation.
Show interest. Flirt. Keep up the witty banter.
Show interest, but show that you have everything you need...It makes them try much harder. Be sure to keep the conversation on them!
How do you show that you have everything you need without sounding arrogant/desperate?
Like I said keep the conversation on her, complements, what she’s interested in. Plus don’t respond twice in a row (except if you’re finishing a thought), and don’t reply immediately all the time, and say you have to go in the middle of a conversation.
Ethnicity?
Asian
RIP
Girls are not that difficult to figure out. Be interesting. Be yourself. Share what gives you passion for life whether it’s leetcoding or drones or rock climbing. Ask her about her interests to see if you have something in common. If you don’t have one, then one of you will go on a more adventurous date spot something you haven’t done before (rock climbing) and see how the shared experience ends up. OP you’re good at breaking the ice but once you do that you need to find common ground or be willing to go outside your comfort zone. It honestly isn’t different from making new friends on the playground when you were a kid...
Thank you!
"Be interesting. Be yourself." Sometimes they are mutually exclusive. And what about people who never learned how to make friends at the playground?
Doesn't matter, depending on your ethnicity. You will always reach the same, deserted state. No matter how much humor you mix into your messages or your interesting experiences or ideas for interesting activities, the girls give the same, desolated outcome. It's a wasted effort. Your energy is literally being poured into a sinkhole. You will probably never see it again. I mean, maybe it's great to do that so you Sharon your language skills. But for what? It's still a sinkhole. No one appreciates what you do. In fact, it's highly likely that someone will take what you do and attach a negative spin on that and damage you even further.
lol, is this how dating apps work for men?
Why is my plight funny? You sadistic individual.