Misc.Jul 7, 2019
Lyftalakwhd

Learning a musical instrument very late in life

I'm 33 years old and want to learn playing the piano/keyboard. I've loved music for a long time and loved to sing before. Since I was not a good at it, my friends and family always made fun of me whenever I attempted to sing. So, I gave up on that. I tried the piano multiple times when I was in my 20s only to give up after a few weeks/months of practice because it felt hard and the insecurity that I may not be good at music at all. But I want to really restart the learning process. But I'm afraid I won't amount to anything and will give up again. Any tips/inspiration from people who got into music very late? Did you progress to become really good at it? Edit: when I say 33 is late, I mean wrt music. Not in absolute terms. Kids generally start at 4-6 years and are generally proficient by the end of their teens. By that standard, starting at 33 seemed late to me.

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Valassis GNu002 Jul 7, 2019

Find a teacher who supports you learning the things you want to play not one who grinds scales. Consider a keyboard with weighted keys (i.e., feels and plays like a piano) that your can use headphones with. Buy a fake book and learn that you can play songs with only a few chords.

Lyft alakwhd OP Jul 7, 2019

I'm planning to buy the Yamaha P71. It has weighted keys and is $400. Any idea about this model or do you suggest any other for a beginner?

Valassis GNu002 Jul 7, 2019

The P71 is nice enough. Try the Casio PX-160 as well. Its keyboard is a bit nicer - "real" ebony/ivory feel. I'm a fan of Korg as well but at that price point I'm not sure that the SP170 is better than the Casio.

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gandalfhan Jul 7, 2019

One of the things I have been doing for sometime is learning to master/mix tracks using software ...this kind of makes me feel like I am doing something in music and can also has helped me under at least nd the science behind music. Plus I can do this in office too taking a break from regular work...just an option to think about.

Microsoft Rydia Jul 7, 2019

I didn't know 33 was considered very late in life. What the hell happens when you hit 60?

Lyft alakwhd OP Jul 7, 2019

33 is considered late in music. I've never had an formal musical experience before this.

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gandalfhan Jul 7, 2019

Nah man...maybe late if u want to be a pop star who is a teen icon

eBay abababbb Jul 7, 2019

I have been learning guitar for the last 3 years. Very rewarding and I can totally see the progress. Never too late

Neurocrine LC is life Jul 7, 2019

Did you have any background in music?

Oracle bH23sD Jul 7, 2019

40 now. Bought an electric guitar last week. It’s fun to play for yourself.

Microsoft Vbsm66 Jul 7, 2019

Look, 99% of the people entering music don't "amount to anything", and it's virtually guaranteed that you won't either. Don't worry about that, assume you will only get good enough for it to be fun for you, and get rid of all that pointless pressure.

ANCILE Solutions, Inc. eNBa60 Jul 7, 2019

Search how to play your favorite songs on YouTube and practice. In addition, practice scales.

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mrburn451 Jul 7, 2019

Why would you feel insecure about learning something new? Sure some kids have been playing instruments since they were 5, but are you aspiring to be a concert pianist like them? Don’t get hung up on thinking that you need to be the absolute best at your hobby. You could be a complete amateur at the piano, but if you learn to play a simple song and are excited by that then you’ve 100% achieved your goal. Find a good teacher, set small goals, and work your way up. It’s never too late to add a musical hobby into your life.

Amazon oktrdq Jul 7, 2019

If you are in the US it’s easy to find a piano teacher. Look for one of those small schools and take trial classes with some teachers until you find one you like.

Salesforce X92582T Jul 7, 2019

It's never too late to follow your passions!