That's the hard part, but once you have one it's much easier to pick up more. Even when you'd rather not, really. Be open to trying new things, don't be judgemental of what people are into (as long as it doesn't harm anyone who doesn't want to be harmed). If you're welcoming, people are more willing to share the things that turn them on, and you might find out you like it too. If you immediately react with revulsion, even your partner might not share out of embarrassment.
Looks decrease over time, don’t base your relationship on looks or there is nothing there. Whick doesn’t mean tc is more important, this poll is shit as 99% of the polls in blind, they just describe OPs biases and prejudices.
Depends on your own TC. When I was at a more “normal” (in SV terms) 200-300k I would have cared about my SO’s income, now that I’m at 500k+ I honestly couldn’t care less. My current gf is a grad student that can barely afford rent.
Compatibility is better than good looks and TC. Having someone with whom you can be more yourself and enjoys the company, everything else fades out. TC will increase automatically when both have their so back and achieve goals very easily.
Why you have to throw a mutual exclusivity clause on this... Now every pretty face would want to be treated as center of universe despite of a $0 bank balance. Same goes for high TC unattractive faces...