Looks or TC?

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May 8 28 Comments

Would you like a partner who earns well or who looks great?

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TOP 28 Comments
  • Intel babubhatt
    I never thought I’d see people on blind view TC as not the most important thing
    May 8 0
  • Cimpress / Eng GBmf58
    All three options are bad. The real goal is find someone who shares your incredibly niche kinks, so you can fuck each other's brains out constantly.
    May 8 4
    • Hotwire zyxwcba
      OP
      Hm... How do you discover your kink?
      May 8
    • Cimpress / Eng GBmf58
      That's the hard part, but once you have one it's much easier to pick up more. Even when you'd rather not, really.
      Be open to trying new things, don't be judgemental of what people are into (as long as it doesn't harm anyone who doesn't want to be harmed).
      If you're welcoming, people are more willing to share the things that turn them on, and you might find out you like it too. If you immediately react with revulsion, even your partner might not share out of embarrassment.
      May 8
    • Microsoft / Eng Capitalism
      This
      May 8
    • Amazon / Other amzngap
      Seconded.
      May 8
  • Facebook WPg65a
    I make enough for both of us. I just want an attractive man that doesn't care about being the breadwinner
    May 8 3
    • Hotwire zyxwcba
      OP
      Why haven't you found him yet?
      May 8
    • Starbucks / Eng QQbobaQQ
      Because I snatched him already.
      May 8
    • New bzRF81
      lol Starbucks
      May 8
  • Google lenajava
    Look can be a constraint in that optimization with maximizing TC. For example not worse to look than some mimimum accepted point
    May 8 3
    • Hotwire zyxwcba
      OP
      You can't quantify looks like TC. It's boolean - they look good enough to turn you on or not. Whether they look so good that you just can't take your mind off or just good enough to get cozy.
      May 8
    • Google lenajava
      What if they look ok but sex is amazing. It is not correlated with the look
      May 8
    • Amazon / Other amzngap
      Agree with my friend @lenajava.. from my experience, sexual chemistry way more important than looks, someone who you didnt think was very attractive can really really surprise you in bed
      May 8
  • Facebook / Eng 435
    Looks decrease over time, don’t base your relationship on looks or there is nothing there.
    Whick doesn’t mean tc is more important, this poll is shit as 99% of the polls in blind, they just describe OPs biases and prejudices.
    May 8 2
    • Hotwire zyxwcba
      OP
      What is reality if not an aggregation of shared biases? You are perhaps looking for an exhaustive set of options or some absolute perspective, both of which are just another bias.
      May 8
    • Microsoft ocus
      Looks are passed on to your offspring.
      May 8
  • Facebook HolidayCat
    Depends on your own TC. When I was at a more “normal” (in SV terms) 200-300k I would have cared about my SO’s income, now that I’m at 500k+ I honestly couldn’t care less. My current gf is a grad student that can barely afford rent.
    May 9 2
  • Informatica TC<200k
    Compatibility is better than good looks and TC. Having someone with whom you can be more yourself and enjoys the company, everything else fades out. TC will increase automatically when both have their so back and achieve goals very easily.
    May 8 0
  • Amazon cKiV54
    TC won't wake up one day with bunch of acnes and pimples!😂
    May 8 0
  • Google coolguy00
    a balance of both. if you lack severely in either one, the other won't make up for it. if your average on one and great in the other, that's a winner.
    May 8 0
  • Facebook / Eng @wazza
    I think for you the key criteria should be how fancy of a divorce lawyer that spouse will hire when you split. Why even bother?
    May 8 0
  • Looking first for a partner, then looks and tc come in to picture 🤷‍♂️
    May 8 0
  • Pandora / Eng ctiv08
    If you don't get along you can have both and still be miserable.
    May 8 0
  • Amazon uKnowNthin
    Why you have to throw a mutual exclusivity clause on this...
    Now every pretty face would want to be treated as center of universe despite of a $0 bank balance. Same goes for high TC unattractive faces...
    May 8 0
  • Oracle / Data bendy
    Also your tc can increase making up for it.
    May 8 0