Looks or TC?
Would you like a partner who earns well or who looks great?
Also your tc can increase making up for it.
I never thought I’d see people on blind view TC as not the most important thing
Look can be a constraint in that optimization with maximizing TC. For example not worse to look than some mimimum accepted point
You can't quantify looks like TC. It's boolean - they look good enough to turn you on or not. Whether they look so good that you just can't take your mind off or just good enough to get cozy.
What if they look ok but sex is amazing. It is not correlated with the look
I make enough for both of us. I just want an attractive man that doesn't care about being the breadwinner
Why haven't you found him yet?
Because I snatched him already.
Looks decrease over time, don’t base your relationship on looks or there is nothing there. Whick doesn’t mean tc is more important, this poll is shit as 99% of the polls in blind, they just describe OPs biases and prejudices.
All three options are bad. The real goal is find someone who shares your incredibly niche kinks, so you can fuck each other's brains out constantly.
Hm... How do you discover your kink?
That's the hard part, but once you have one it's much easier to pick up more. Even when you'd rather not, really. Be open to trying new things, don't be judgemental of what people are into (as long as it doesn't harm anyone who doesn't want to be harmed). If you're welcoming, people are more willing to share the things that turn them on, and you might find out you like it too. If you immediately react with revulsion, even your partner might not share out of embarrassment.
Compatibility is better than good looks and TC. Having someone with whom you can be more yourself and enjoys the company, everything else fades out. TC will increase automatically when both have their so back and achieve goals very easily.
Why you have to throw a mutual exclusivity clause on this... Now every pretty face would want to be treated as center of universe despite of a $0 bank balance. Same goes for high TC unattractive faces...
a balance of both. if you lack severely in either one, the other won't make up for it. if your average on one and great in the other, that's a winner.
TC won't wake up one day with bunch of acnes and pimples!😂