What does it mean easy to date as woman? Kind of meaningless statement, because in the end everybody gets person that has similar value to theirs. If you are talking hooking up then yes women can hook up more attractive than themselves, but for marriage obviously this is not the case.
The amount of men in the Bay Area is not that bad considering a lot of men are actually gay and a lot of them are systematically eliminated by a ton of women too. If you have some game, you will be fine.