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I’m a professional coaster AMA
My parents are forcing me to get married in couple of years. I am not ready yet, what do you talk to other person before making a decision. How does it work ? Meeting a stranger and asking some HR questions 😄 I am just 24, working as SDE.
How can they force you? If you’re 24 you’re an adult and can make your own damn decisions. (I realize I’m not at all familiar with this part of Indian culture)
They want me to get married, and i have independence of choosing my partner. Just like my career, either engineer or doctor. To explain the situation to you, they will filter out some matches and i have to pick one.
No you don't have to pick anyone. Nobody can force you to get married.
Go bald
Man your parents may want you to meet with sinew bectou like and may be lifepsrtner you can choose
OP, is this something you actually want to do? Have you even been on a date before? Saying you have a choice in choosing your partner, or a choice between being a doctor or an engineer isn't a real choice at all.
If you are not on board with an arranged marriage, no matter who they pick, then for the sake of you and your intended bride don't do it. Chances are your parents will eventually forgive you. Much better to have a strained relationship with your parents for a while then to enter into a marriage that you resent and regret. I know there's a big controversy in Indian culture between arranged marriage and love marriage. Expectations are much much different. But you have a lot of trepidation and are using the word forced so I don't think you are comfortable with it. Therefore, do not do it. Go and meet the girls your parents have arranged, but unless you have an amazing connection with one of them then choose none. If you have that amazing connection, then do not marry until you have spent a lot of time with that woman.
Tell them you are gay
Meet only if u are serious. Dont play with someones emotions just because you dont have courage to convince ur parents.
don't be a fool and rebel against this nonsense already. - Advice from am Indian
This is just ... sad. What part of the world are you from?
India
Lmao what do you think dumbass