My spouse took a break post baby for year , now it has been around 3 years and shows no interest to even give an interview. I tried to motivate her and tried to support her by making some time for her to prepare for interview. Now she just watches Netflix and does shopping all day.. she gets very offended when topic of interview comes in and also is upset when I say not to shop online. Not sure how else I can communicate?
Send divorce papers.
And half the check too?
He's already taking care of her expenses. With divorce she'll have to come back to work too and bonus : he can sleep with other girls
Divorce, file for aliments
Tell her to manage the money for shopping and Netflix on her own
She says that but never spends a penny on anything .. I feel really bad to force or ask again
Why do u want her to go back to work so bad, if she don’t want to she don’t want to
+1
There is a thing called personal development and learning, which cannot happen by sitting at home and when you love someone you want their good
Uh oh. Sounds like inflation is on the way. But seriously, sorry. Who would give up a good thing like using someone else's salary and just needing to keep their room clean and be happy when the earner comes home? Kinda sounds like a kid or a pet...
Dude! Don't! 😂
Not to be an alarmist, but if she doesn’t work, she’ll be entitled to more than half your paycheck when she filed for divorce.
What does your family gain by her working?
Peace of mind she always complains she is bored .. also asked if she was interested to do further eduction .. she wants me to come home early from office and not spend time on my personal career development !!
I can’t really judge your situation but I think she isn’t thinking long term and someone in the family has to do that if you want to move ahead further and not just fall victim to the WLB mantra.
Seems like someone does not appreciate the sacrifice his wife is making for his own child! Get a break, appreciate your wife and motherhood. Being a mom is a full time job. Spend more time with your family and see how much effort is needed to entertain and educate a toddler.
I know and I give value and lot of respect to what she is doing.. I think 3 years is long time for her to complete relish motherhood .. I have been supportive and appreciate what she does for family ..
God OP don’t you know being a mother is the HARDEST full time job on earth? It’s hard work making basic food for a toddler and playing with them outside
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Throw her in timeout and tell her to stay there until she stops acting like a child 🤷♂️