Live as close to work as possible. Commuting is terrible and wears you down
Fremont
Check if it's close to one of their shuttle stops. Use the shuttle it's awesome
Fremont Ardenwood is a good option.
If you're not living in Menlo Park you're screwed
Mountain View or Palo Alto
Trust me on this. Move to Tenderloin or east Palo Alto
Congratulations! What role?