I am a 27 yr old Indian guy who moved recently to bay area. I am very reserved person until someone starts taking to me. I have friends who are girls but don't get it how to go forward with someone. I never had a GF and was focused badly on career. Need some tips on how to socialize actively. I have tried dating apps and clubbing but didn't work. PS: I am kind of depressed these days out of loneliness esp. after this long weekend and have a mental pressure of getting married to someone who I may not know.
Start taking with girls whom your parents show. Good luck in finding an indian girl to date and then marry in bay area! Not gonna happen.
“Start taking with girls whom your parents show.” Wtf?! Are you seriously suggesting parents of a 27 yr old virgin man provide that man with girls???
@hooli have you ever heard of arranged marriages? if you're not Indian you dont understand. So shut the fu*k up
Try matrimonial site
Try to do Pooja at Sunnyvale Hindu temple
Focus badly on career. How do you know you have reached the peak?
Not reached the peak but have always been running after something related to career and not focused on relationships, friends,dating etc.....you know what I mean!!
Go sleep. LinkedIn has good food. Eat healthy then 🏋️♀️ and build some nice 💪🏽.. that will help build confidence. Find some hobby. If you are thinking that someone on blind will say do x y z and girls will come running for you then I have underpass I want to sell..
Talk to Indian girls
Don't worry about dating and starting making a lot of new friends at least one a week. Build from there.
How?
“Until someone talks to me” needs to change
Introversion is a real thing, and it's not a bad one. But yeah I agree, if it isn't working for him, he may want to put himself out there
Introversion and insecure quietness aren’t the same thing. An introverted person doesn’t have to be scared to lead a conversation. They just need to rest after. Insecure nervousness is unattractive
Be cocky, develop a sense of humor
Being cocky != Having a sense of humor. There are already enough cocky douchebags in the Bay Area. So do the latter, dont be the former
True, cockiness has to be calculated
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Start by learning how to hold a conversation and express interest. U will get no where without directly expressing interest.