I am indian girl working in tech gig. Now my parents has started looking guy for me or asked me if I have someone in my mind. Now problem is that I dont want kids in my life. Nor do I am that much into sex. Reason for this is that I believe in sprituality and believe we are here to achieve something bigger than just this. But don't get me wrong, I am perfectly normal (Dont just judge bcz I said No sex). It is just that I believe Marriage is more like two people truely care for each other and be there for each other no matter what. I am like any normal girl, have been in romantic relationships, love to travell, being close to nature, etc. I am Just wondering are there people with similar mindset exist?
I’m guessing that having someone else, or other people select a spouse for you significantly dampens the amount you’re willing to invest in the relationship. But if it’s a cultural thing, ignore me.
It would be more like my parents would be helping me to point to guys they know. It would be totally my choice
I’ve seen people with no kids...all up to spirituality but no sex is something non-existent.
I am sure she will change her mind once she gets into a relationship
I have been in romantic relationships . Its not new to me. All I am saying it may not be priority or necesscity for me in future seeing that how much decrese in that I have felt since starting to learn about spirituality.
I don't see a contradiction between having sex and loving and caring for each other.
A lot of people are staying child-free these days. I think you could find a man who doesn’t want kids. Also, you may change your mind about sex if you really like and are attracted to your partner.
I have been in romantic relationships . Its not new to me. All I am saying it may not be priority or necesscity for me in future seeing that how much decrese in that I have felt since starting to learn about spirituality.
Will you date me if I agreed to no sex and kids ? I am up for it. But I do need cuddling and spooning without ejac. I heard tantra says no to ejaculation but use that energy to continuously ejaculate each and every moment of our life. Will you cuddle with me a bit and not mind my erotic massages ?
Yes. There are people with similar mindset. But lot fewer. You may find many people who don’t want kids... But it would be rare for someone to go beyond worldly desires of sex etc seek a spiritual connection (rising above physical and mental aspects of life). Don’t settle for less, especially in marriage. Grass always seems greener on the other side. It can be life’s worst nightmare if it doesn’t work out.
Yes, some people are not into sex, they are called asexual. I would suggest that you google asexuality and see if you find yourself on that spectrum. It’s perfectly normal and you don’t have to do things that don’t give you pleasure. Also some people don’t want children. They are called “childfree”. People choose that for various reasons, and again that’s perfectly normal.
You will find very few people with similar mindset, best you try to find yourself rather than your parents. There is nothing wrong with not having sex/kids but I don’t understand how it relates to spirituality. One can be spiritual and have sex/kids. I would suggest that you are open about this with your future partner so you don’t ruin each others life
They would exist but it will be hard to find them..atleast in the indian culture..mostly americans will be ok with no kids..
Yup I know that is why posted to see if how much likely it would be possible to find sm1 like that
No kids is chill, but no sex? Look anywhere but us Americans!!