No mystery

Oracle mr robato
Jun 10 16 Comments

Love her, but no mystery left. Miss it. Ideas?
Been >5 years, live together
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Thank you to the constructive responses. We talked it over, and we're definitely just bored and don't try enough new things together for our tastes.

To the rest:
Wow, who hurt you? :(

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TOP 16 Comments
  • Unity ThlD23
    Do her a favor and dump her. Give her the apartment as a consolation prize for putting up with such a schmuck. Go chase "mystery" and spend the rest of your life letting people down.
    Jun 10 3
    • Oracle mr robato
      OP
      I'm sure I'm not the only one who thinks shitting with the door open is too much but not enough to break up over 🤔
      Jun 10
    • Unity ThlD23
      My bad, I meant to say "spend the rest of your life being disappointed"
      Jun 10
    • Unity ThlD23
      Congrats! You've discovered the woman you live with also has human body
      Jun 10
  • You want mystery? Let her go fuck other dudes, you can guess which STD you caught each week!
    Jun 10 1
  • Honeywell wellHoney
    If you haven’t guessed yet, everyone thinks your a D-Bag. You sound shallow as if your spouse is there to entertain you. It’s a relationship. She’s probably thinking the same thing.

    Break up and find someone who cares less about you and you’ll have the mystery of always wondering when she’ll leave you.
    Jun 10 1
    • Google Mr. Glass
      You’re the real schmuck. Get better at giving advice instead of snarky insults or stfu
      Jun 10
  • Tesla mkjs98z
    Congratulations you’ve now experienced marriage
    Jun 10 0
  • Oracle mr robato
    OP
    Thank you to the constructive responses. We talked it over, and we're definitely just bored and don't try enough new things together for our tastes.

    To the rest:
    Wow, who hurt you? :(
    Jun 10 0
  • Amazon jdznmof b
    This is bound to happen in any successful relationship, and it has its own joy. You will not realize what you have until you lose it. If you are 30+, this is the best you are going to get, so cherish what you have.
    Jun 10 0
  • Amazon WoolyScarf
    Try doing new hobbies and activities together. May bring back the spark to your relationship. Could just be that you're bored of the routines you've fallen into.
    Jun 10 0
  • Apple / Eng kGUv48
    Talk to her more
    Jun 10 0
  • Amazon echo $?
    Been married to my wife over 15 years now and she and I still discover new things about each other. If you haven’t in 5 years, you’re either both really boring or not looking hard enough. They aren’t always the most profound, but it feels amazing to really know someone so well that you can just hold hands and that is a conversation all and of itself.

    Each of you should take a trip alone for business or pleasure and you’ll feel what you would be missing. Every time I travel for work I feel my wife tugging at my heartstrings.
    Jun 13 2
    • Tesla mkjs98z
      What new thing did you discover about her this week?
      Jun 13
    • Amazon echo $?
      Why she’s a chocolate snob. She prefers imported Swiss chocolate over all others.
      Jun 14