Not Attracted to Husband
Husband is very loving, but I'm just not attracted to him. I love my husband. I convinced him that I need to move to Seattle for my job, but I just wanted to avoid anything to do with intimacy as I didn't want to confront this topic. Having been in Seattle for over 6 months now, I have made a lot of guy friends, and I'm really attracted to this guy from Amazon. Breaking up with my husband will break him.
Gfys.
If I understand you correctly, you want to move to Seattle to hang out with amazon guy behind your husband’s back?
How old are you?
Yeah. I think it's better u leave him otherwise u screw him a lot. Have proper discussion. Tell him I am still thinking like teenage girl, and u deserve better. Or hook him up with better option. Win - win
Herm, you love your husband but not attracted to him?.. I think you should really take some personal off time and clearly think
I love him because he is nice to me. I'm not attracted to him because he is too nice to me.
So he should spank you.
Where is that commitment when you get married? If you cannot even make it, why start a family? Remember, Karma is a B
My husband is not as confident as he used to be. And he doesn't take his career seriously and that is a huge turn off.
Shouldn’t you first work with your husband and find out what his problems are? Instead at a different city you start to f with someone else behind his back? There will be karma in your life. Don’t shed tears.
Lot of these depends on your culture and background... What is right for an American may not be right for an Indian.. the values differ a lot... You cannot get a well suited advice here as this forum has people from all cultures
She’s in the US and not India yes? Culture or not some states have laws where she can lose everything and it would be well deserved if she’s cheated on him.
Law is different from sense of morality and values. Also, being in US doesn't restrict anybody to follow value system of their choice. It is land of free. Oh, yeah.. you mean "native american" culture? It is extinct when Columbus landed on this continent.
What should I do?
Troll post for sure. Some sadistic pleasure some people derive from such posts. Usually starts like this - i am unhappy with husband. Screwing a firang. Had arranged marriage. What to do?
The needful