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Booking.com lqFo02
Nov 29

Let's say: I want to have sex every 4-5 months(because I get none). And every 4-5 months I go to a prostitute. And I regret it every time. What do I do? Please help.

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  • Amazon / EngGHskann
    Dress better, put more effort into your cleanliness (like shaving and haircut), actively exercise so you aren’t fat, adjust your diet so you aren’t fat, make sure you don’t have a thick accent (if you’re an immigrant this is a big turn off), practice socializing and being immaculately socialized (as in, know how to act proper for each situation, as women really care about social norms), and build some self confidence.

    If you do these there is no way you can not get a real girlfriend. Girls are easily manipulated by social appearances, so become an attractive guy and take advantage of their preferences!

    If you get really passionate about this idea, you can even get into Orthotropics to adjust your facial bones to a natural alignment — this is something I’ve been doing and has increased my sexual market value tremendously. It’s basically a priceless lifelong improvement.
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    • Booking.com lqFo02
      OP
      I hate the fact that you have look nice for someone to like you. I don't want that kind of a relationship. That is why I don't do that.
      Nov 29
    • Amazon / EngGHskann
      I hate it too. But the fact of the matter, is that looks really matter a whole lot. It’s like a game, a game of life. If you don’t want to play, you can compensate by paying prostitutes.

      But as you’ve aptly figured out, you don’t actually like seeing prostitutes.

      Either you let go of your ideals and integrate with society, or the girls won’t like you. Take it or leave it. It’s a harsh reality.

      I’m not saying this to be mean, I want to help. You simply have prioritized your ideals over living your life to its fullest. And you’re unhappy about it. So that means it’s time to stop being so stubborn and change.
      Nov 29
    • Booking.com lqFo02
      OP
      I tried that. But I was too nice. I am still too fucking nice and polite. And that is when it backfires. Don't know how to find the sweet spot
      Nov 29
    • Amazon / EngGHskann
      Yes being too nice is a problem. Women like competent, powerful and dangerous. But! They want to feel so beautiful and attractive that they can convince you to become sociable on their behalf. This is the basic female erotic fantasy.

      So go forth and become the man in the story, or stick with your ideals and live a lonely unfulfilled life.
      Nov 29
    • Booking.com lqFo02
      OP
      Hmmm. Thinking of ideas of how to show the world my competency, powerfulness. When I don't like showing off at all.
      Nov 29
    • Amazon / EngGHskann
      Well I think starting with appearances is the easiest way. Like all the points in my OP. If you dress well and have impeccable hygiene, then you’ll be in great shape comparatively.
      Nov 29
    • Booking.com lqFo02
      OP
      And how would I lose weight when I am in anxiety. I fucking eat at that time.
      Nov 29
    • Amazon / EngGHskann
      Better figure that shit out lol

      Seek help from a therapist and do some research into psychology. You seem like a smart guy. I think you can improve in any way you want to
      Nov 29
    • Booking.com lqFo02
      OP
      Hmm. Thanks for the help. I'll do something about it.
      Nov 29
    • Amazon / EngGHskann
      Some girls really like accents. Key thing is what kind of accent and how you use it, or get rid of it
      Nov 29
  • Microsoft Mr 🌏
    Would you be interested in some gay anal sex?
    Nov 290
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    • Booking.com lqFo02
      OP
      ?
      Nov 29
    • Apple asyncAwait
      English translation with a little precision lose.
      Your hand ; upper hand
      Nov 29
  • Booking.com lqFo02
    OP
    120K. Spanish.
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    • AMD
      5nm

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      5nmmore
      As a Spanish dude, you should have not problems getting a gf and getting laid.
      Nov 29
    • Amazon 123raj
      Exactly ..being a latino dude and finding it hard to get a gf is like being an Indian dude and finding it hard to get a tech job.
      Nov 29
  • Microsoft Asusual🤣
    Why do you regret seeing a prostitute? It's just sex. If you fall in love with her well that might be another matter. Why are you not getting sex at home, assuming you have a partner of some kind..
    Nov 292
    • Booking.com lqFo02
      OP
      I am single
      Nov 29
    • Microsoft Asusual🤣
      Well then prostitute away. Why feel bad about it. It's your money and it's no one's business.
      Nov 29
  • GE / EngSuperWario
    If you cannot find a mating partner, why not get some toys and use your imagination 🤗
    Nov 290
  • Google UdhEr
    Maybe a good goal is a friend with benefits. It doesn't sound like you really want a relationship, from your post. A good source for a friend with benefits is former girlfriends. You have any you thought fondly of but it just didn't work out? Now maybe you're both older and more mature. Have a nice friendship with sex every few months.
    Nov 295
    • Booking.com lqFo02
      OP
      Where do I find this girl?
      Nov 29
    • Google UdhEr
      You have no former girlfriends?
      Nov 29
    • Booking.com lqFo02
      OP
      None. Age 24
      Nov 29
    • Google UdhEr
      Well a friend of mine went to this course that teaches about sex, where strangers meet. It resulted in a nice relationship. It's some kind of sex forward thing and you have like guided sex instructions as a group. Sounds weird, but could be a safe way to connect. Don't know what it was called. It was in Seattle.
      Nov 29
    • Booking.com lqFo02
      OP
      Lekker!
      Nov 29
  • AMD
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    5nmmore
    I would assume you like feeling bad, since you continue to see a prostitute every few months. I think feeling bad is part of the attraction
    Nov 295
    • Booking.com lqFo02
      OP
      Your assumption is wrong. I hope you stop assuming things in life.
      Nov 29
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      5nmmore
      Then WHY would you keep doing something that leaves you feeling bad?
      Nov 29
    • Ridecell learnfortc
      ^the human condition right here
      Nov 29
    • AMD Subae
      When is AMD coming out with 5nm chips?
      Nov 29
    • AMD
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      5nmmore
      @subae sometime next year
      Nov 29
  • Lyft Barack
    Just before you call the pro, jerk it off.
    Treat it seriously as you would do with a date. Block some time, foreplay with yourself, watch photos and/or videos, prepare the setting, have some wine, and take your time.
    I have all the toys you've ever heard of and a separate iPad just for that purpose.
    I've been pro-free for two years now. It's not that hard, you just need to take your hand job seriously.
    Nov 290
  • Google hTED02
    Challenge is to find young smart girl :-)
    Nov 302
    • Amazon / EngGHskann
      Young, smart, beautiful. Pick two.

      Now, pick only one for realistic results in Seattle area.
      Nov 30
    • Google hTED02
      I had one but she got married so on search again
      Nov 30
  • Google hTED02
    Find a hot girl who is not a prostitute but you her sugar daddy . That shud help . It’s balance between a gf and a prostitute . She lives her life u live urs
    Nov 301
    • Microsoft Asusual🤣
      Har that's rich. Women are needy. You don't pay a prostitute for sex, you pay her to leave. Problem solved, you get laid and there is no complications.
      Nov 30
  • Juniper ~/var/log
    Always use condoms with prosti...
    Nov 291
    • Microsoft Asusual🤣
      If she is a real pro she will always make that happen
      Nov 29
  • Airbnb jim.hodlen
    it’s fine, you’re in amsterdam right?
    Nov 291
  • Intel jyk
    Do you feel guilty due to religious reasons?
    Nov 291
    • Booking.com lqFo02
      OP
      Nope. Just some bad experiences in the past but I am not able to stop :(
      Nov 29
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    nohomobro

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    nohomobromore
    Are you Indian?
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  • OpenTable Meliodas
    We’ll if prostitution is unlawful where you are, you should stop, before you put your career at risk by getting busted.

    Put in some effort or go to a sex club.

    As a carnie friend used to say, “if you set your sights low enough, you can get laid every night.”
    Nov 290
  • Microsoft HaloWens
    Just find a partner
    Nov 290

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