Please help
Let's say: I want to have sex every 4-5 months(because I get none). And every 4-5 months I go to a prostitute. And I regret it every time. What do I do? Please help.
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If you cannot find a mating partner, why not get some toys and use your imagination 🤗
I would assume you like feeling bad, since you continue to see a prostitute every few months. I think feeling bad is part of the attraction
Your assumption is wrong. I hope you stop assuming things in life.
Then WHY would you keep doing something that leaves you feeling bad?
Dress better, put more effort into your cleanliness (like shaving and haircut), actively exercise so you aren’t fat, adjust your diet so you aren’t fat, make sure you don’t have a thick accent (if you’re an immigrant this is a big turn off), practice socializing and being immaculately socialized (as in, know how to act proper for each situation, as women really care about social norms), and build some self confidence. If you do these there is no way you can not get a real girlfriend. Girls are easily manipulated by social appearances, so become an attractive guy and take advantage of their preferences! If you get really passionate about this idea, you can even get into Orthotropics to adjust your facial bones to a natural alignment — this is something I’ve been doing and has increased my sexual market value tremendously. It’s basically a priceless lifelong improvement.
I hate the fact that you have look nice for someone to like you. I don't want that kind of a relationship. That is why I don't do that.
I hate it too. But the fact of the matter, is that looks really matter a whole lot. It’s like a game, a game of life. If you don’t want to play, you can compensate by paying prostitutes. But as you’ve aptly figured out, you don’t actually like seeing prostitutes. Either you let go of your ideals and integrate with society, or the girls won’t like you. Take it or leave it. It’s a harsh reality. I’m not saying this to be mean, I want to help. You simply have prioritized your ideals over living your life to its fullest. And you’re unhappy about it. So that means it’s time to stop being so stubborn and change.
Just find a partner
Do you feel guilty due to religious reasons?
Nope. Just some bad experiences in the past but I am not able to stop :(
Maybe a good goal is a friend with benefits. It doesn't sound like you really want a relationship, from your post. A good source for a friend with benefits is former girlfriends. You have any you thought fondly of but it just didn't work out? Now maybe you're both older and more mature. Have a nice friendship with sex every few months.
Where do I find this girl?
You have no former girlfriends?
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Why do you regret seeing a prostitute? It's just sex. If you fall in love with her well that might be another matter. Why are you not getting sex at home, assuming you have a partner of some kind..
I am single
Well then prostitute away. Why feel bad about it. It's your money and it's no one's business.