why did you choose the person you ended up with
Timing
Came for the sex, stayed for the connection.
Oh you said married, nvm
She’s attractive and has a good heart. I want to take care of her.
She's fucking brilliant
Are you calling yourself brilliant?
I haven’t taken the proverbial jump off the cliff, but things that I’m looking for are: - decent human being/good heart/similar values and beliefs - emotional intelligence/empathy/connection - high survival value/invested in career/high TC - high reproduction value/attractiveness/healthiness There ya go. I’m looking for an accomplished woman who can be an equal partner.
Rare to find qualities! I couldn't find anyone with those, although I was more relaxed on the 3rd point.
Yeah, still unmarried for that reason. 🤷🏼♂️ #3 is important to me too because I don’t want to worry that a divorce would ruin me financially.
She had ambition and was attractive. Somehow she was attracted to me too despite my low TC.
Men pretty much settle. Women choose.
+1
You must be very young and inexperienced if you think that. Or perhaps you live in the Man Jose and have limited options. It’s exactly the opposite after 30 in normal gender balanced places. I know zero men who settle versus a very large percentage of women with the exception of a few lucky ones. Men don’t have a biological clock and any inventive to settle. Women have incentives - expiring eggs and unwillingness or inability to provide for themselves.
Dat Ass..et portfolio
Loyalty, and a desire for having children soon.
not a married man. but many of my friends were forced by their girlfriends. east asian, male.
Like this guy? https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=fssFXlNk6vw
lol. just as tech lead said, "a funny story. my wife left me." he spoke for so many married men I know.