My prospective father in law on my face asked for my offer letter and H1B notice. Is this normal in the marriage circles. Also not an arranged marriage setting. My gf talked with her dad and soon as I talked with her father he messaged me asking for this. Is this considered to be normal ? WTF Edit: Did the needfull. He revarated bac sayings Thanks pa.
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He just wants to make sure you arent marriage scammer or anything. But ask him to provide DNA testing to make sure hes her biological father.
Yea, working independent woman in her late 20s will be fooled by scammers
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Is she very hot? If not dump her
No cannot. She is hot bruh
Dude..if you are thinking with your dick before marriage.. and capitulating like this ..then best of luck
Indian Parents are heavily involved in their kids marriage. You can think of it in two ways, there are a number of dudes who gives false info at the time of marriage and its gets messy later. Her father is simply trying to ensure that her daughter is not being duped, as long as you feel his intent is good, you should show him the documents and help him build confidence The other way of thinking is that her father is an asshole trying to downplay you in front of her daughter Make your call based on what you feel after talking/meeting your perspective father in law
I mean I am assuming he is being protective of his daughter.
If you feel that is the intent, then just show her the docs that give him confidence in you and peace of mind for her daughters future
Lol what nonsense. Provide the details and ask him to provide his birth certificate.
Lol
Ask him to show the microscopic photo of the “swimmer” he was before his daughter was born.
Be prepared for follow up questions. Marriage is long term, H1B is only 3 years on notice. He may ask future plans too, and how you’d manage after. But yes, I’ve heard a few of these.
Wow, I don’t know what to do about Indian parents man.
It’s normal. I wouldn’t t kill the idea of sharing, but would first have a dialogue on what is it that he’s concerned about and talk through before sharing. May be he’s just protective of his daughter given what background he’s coming from? May be he is the kinds that just wants to be on top and the idea of love marriage didn’t go well, so he’s checking all boxes? A lot of this is subjective and you’re the best judge of what to do and what to infer from this
Just say no dude. If they walk over an offer later, it was never right to begin with. You are more than your TC.
I could but I don’t want to jeopardize this man lol
I hear you dude. In that case is it that big a deal?
It's normal in some communities. If you love her then endure.
Endure it is
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Haha. Tell them you don’t mind sharing any details if they are willing to show the same paper work from their side as well
Meaning my gf’s paperwork ?
Yeah. Why not. Not that you would require to see that, it just places a thought in prospective FIL’s mind that he can’t ask for anything out of the blue. Otherwise, who knows he may next ask for the property papers of your family