Relationship advice
I have know this girl for 3 years now as a good friend. Last year we both had a rough year we went through breakup with different people. 3 months a go she came down to meet me and we felt we both have a thing for each other , followed by we did have an intimate relationship. But once in a while she keeps saying that she feels lonely and she feels like going back to her previous relationship. This is where I am not sure , should I even take her seriously or just keep fooling around. The only thing I don’t want is , I get totally into this relation and then after 6 months she backs off , it’s too much for me to go through another breakup :( TC $170
Run away dude. She is def not over her ex. Consider yourself fortunate she mentioned it to you.
Thanks, I am replying on the first comment please share your thoughts on the same
Run ... as fast as you can and as far away as you can from that woman.
Lol sounds funny ... but thanks , sometimes you need an 3rd eye to look over a situation
Id live what I have to live with her. So what if it may end in 6 months? Better to try it out and be happy for a while than to never try.
Emotionally it kills .. can’t be close to someone thinking they won’t stay for long. Specially if having an intimate relationship :(
Well from this reply, you can't walk away either. Try it out and let her know how you feel in a few weeks
Why is TC relevant for this question? 😂
TC is always relevant to avoid have people reply with 'TC or GTFO'
Tc is relevant for every post on blind... this is the trend ... more like mandatory to get a reply from the community otherwise gtfo ;)
Dam !! I see so many “Run away” 😧
Have an honest conversation with her about it and mention that you feel like she might not be over her ex. Treat her like a partner and explain your needs while talking about hers. If she's saying she's lonely, maybe she wants more support from you. Maybe not, but there's only one way to find out. Or don't have the difficult conversation and don't be surprised if she ends up bouncing back to her ex since it's just a fun short-term thing with no emotions.
This is sane advice. I agree. Have a honest chat and tell her that u r interested/invested in this relationship but want her to get over her ex. You can't be the garbage bag that she dumps shit on. Be firm and clear. Use the road trip to get to know her better. iF after the chat she keeps mentioning or going back to her ex, dump her.
Good advice. Commit if you want to and fill that void but don't go into it half ass or she will end up with him not you
Marvell? Are you like a hardware engineer for avengers tech?
Run away as fast as you can...stay only for sex
Could be worse, I had one ex gf who behind me continued to keep a long distance relationship with her ex i found out later, they really were separated due to the distance. Thankfully I was not overly attached to her and moved on.
Run away as fast as you can unless you're only in it for the physical aspect. This girl will go back to her ex. The only question is when.
Feels sad and scary ...
I did think about the “only for Physical aspect” but of-late I have started realizing that I am getting too emotionally attached