Relationship advice

I have seen lot of people seeking blind for venting out relationship issues. I have been having terrible issues in my relationship over the past years and managed to come out positively to some/ good extent. It took and still taking lots of efforts from both ends to keep this going. In the whole process I realized -1. Your happiness is just with you and only you . 2. It would have been ideal to have a third mind who has the birds eye view and could help us take out of the loop we are stuck. I am happy to do that for any folks who need such help. no trolls please . This is just an initiative to make a happier community.