RelationshipsMay 17, 2019
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Right age for marriage/starting family

So I am male in my early 30's and haven't found a partner yet. In past I have broken up few relationships I was in because I thought I could do better. I know it's shitty thinking but I was immature at that time. Now I am worried that I will end up alone, it's hard to date. Considering I will start dating now I might will find someone compatible by my mid thirties. Would that be too late?

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Splunk Mrs. Pony May 17, 2019

What are other options than starting now?

VMware 🔱〽 OP May 17, 2019

I am Indian guy so there always arranged marriage.

VMware 🔱〽 OP May 17, 2019

Yea sometimes I think I should go back and rectify my past mistakes especially when I see my ex is already married with kids

Splunk Mrs. Pony May 17, 2019

Do both routes. They are not mutually exclusive

Workiva desiboi May 17, 2019

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Microsoft U_U May 17, 2019

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Castlight Health whaaaaaat May 17, 2019

Clearly you were wrong. Maybe you should evaluate whether or not marriage and family is even a priority for you, or if you just want the best female trophy you can manage.

Google Cawk Block May 17, 2019

I found a partner in mid 30s. Modern life requires some of us delay relationship and kids. A lot of people who have delayed are having kids in late 30s. If you feel you are ready, get serious about dating.

Cloudflare myimouto May 17, 2019

you are late if you wanted to optimize for the health of your kids, but your best move is to start right away

Amazon nEYy06 May 17, 2019

Jesus.

Apple MRpJ61 May 17, 2019

I think it shouldn't affect the kids too much if your wife is a bit younger

Intel bau May 17, 2019

Have kids when you are mentally prepared and have the money to foot bills. I think a certain maturity sets in when you are 30+, and makes understanding kids easier

Amazon nEYy06 May 17, 2019

You can date without thinking about it “being too late.” Relax. Find something you enjoy in life. Just live.

Google Cawk Block May 17, 2019

Older you get, higher the chances of having a re-tarted kid. Unless you get a bride in the 20s. Hit the dating sites nao!

LinkedIn b76Y90o3 May 17, 2019

Be serious about dating and finding a life partner. Be sincere and treat your lady well. It’s definitely not too late.