Rude peeps

Oath Pooch
Jul 16, 2018 35 Comments

I was coming out of an open house and fell down from on the last few steps of the staircase on the street. A chinese family was entering the house. They kept looking and me, walked past me, said nothing to me, offered no help even though I was in pain. I almost snarked thank you for asking if I am doing okay. What are some rude behaviors you have witnessed?

Btw- some people are seeing a racial angle to this, that’s on you. I am merely stating some description about the people I am talking about. I don’t want to racially profile anyone.

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  • Microsoft Nextone
    Wow. Entitled much?
    Jul 16, 2018 6
    • Google Marsian
      You need to travel more to familiarize with different cultures.

      You should not feel entitled to be asked if you are okay.
      Jul 16, 2018
    • Amazon Jеff Bezos
      Why they help? You are competition!!!
      Jul 16, 2018
    • New DuQvV7
      Its perfectly fine to step over you, if they didn’t make you fall.

      Darwin’s Rules.
      Jul 17, 2018
    • Ericsson goffre
      how can that be entitled... in many places its totally expected that people will stop and ask u if u are fine...like where im from its common to at least say hi to your neighbors even if u don’t know their names! i have only seen older Americans saying hi..
      Sep 12, 2018
    • Oath Pooch
      OP
      This ^
      Sep 12, 2018
  • Qualcomm Then what
    Next you ll say they did not put antiseptic cream on my wounds and did not give me a Gatorade.
    Are you like a 5 year old?
    Jul 16, 2018 3
    • Oath Pooch
      OP
      Lol
      Jul 16, 2018
    • Axtria ThugLife😎
      Helping someone or showing concern is a behavior you only exhibit with 5 year olds? 🙄
      Jul 16, 2018
    • Qualcomm Then what
      No it’s not a grave injury which he needs to be cuddled. You also grow a pair with the OP.
      Jul 16, 2018
  • Microsoft / Eng SkunkyPot
    Its different culture, don’t be such an asshole !
    Jul 16, 2018 0
  • Microsoft / Eng
    Whereisthe

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    Whereisthemore
    Another hate speech towards Chinese. Yes, your post is racist. Yes, none white Americans can also be a racist. In fact, I am spotting significantly more percentage of these people in Blind who are racist than typical Americans including people living in South. I am amazed that these hate posts are from a single demographic and wonder why these people target Chinese so much. Maybe because Chinese are usually nice and looking easier to attack, like bullies usually targeting weak and nice kids.

    When people complaining about one demographic is only by a certain demographic, you have to look in the mirror and think whether it is Chinese or (surprise) it is You that has a problem.
    Jul 16, 2018 6
    • Microsoft / Eng
      Whereisthe

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      Whereisthemore
      Fuck off? Seriously? And you blame the other person for not offering for help? What kind of entitlement is that? Are you a lofty class person who expects servant class people to serve you?

      I can go on and on about my bad encounters with Indians. In fact, most of my bad ones happen to be with Indians. Shall I list all of them? All were much worse than yours.

      Honing loudly with derogatory remarks when my 5 year old kid was hesitant at crossing the street. Recklessly driving to intentionally get past me with honing then dangerously getting ahead of me. Clearly frowning and throwing bad words to me when her car was the one who didn’t know and dangerously going when it was my car’s turn and doing it in quiet single family residence. Cutting in line. Not even saying sorry when his kids scratched my friends kids face leaving permanent scar...

      how do you feel? Point is not about Indians being bad. It must be small percentage of people but by stating this in public forum, I would be inciting the anger and hate towards Indian population as people who had experienced similarly would chime in.

      Every demographic does certain things worse or differently. It is easy to judge them but describing them as rude is a big judgement which can be used in the same way for all people. To be honest, I am still puzzled about why Indians people seem angry all the time and so unkind to people here, especially while driving. I had been to India so I know how chaotic driving there is and try to understand from that perspective but dont post my complaints due to the reasons I stated. Germans had issues with Jewish. You know how easily such kind of hatred can explode easily.

      I get that you were upset about certain behaviors from certain demographic but you gotta know people of other side or other demographic can say the same or even worse for the people of your country.
      Jul 16, 2018
    • Oath Pooch
      OP
      Thank you sharing that you hate Indians. I am from Israel. Tell us how you hate us now.
      Jul 16, 2018
    • Marvell 95050
      Indians and Chinese are very similar: hard working, smart, tight w money/ good w finances. This is all generally speaking though.
      Jul 16, 2018
    • Cloudflare daddyankee
      Oh you’re Israeli??? Figures kill Palestinians in occupied land then come here and be racist towards others. What’s next, Pooch
      Jul 17, 2018
    • Amazon ifrir5
      The sooner the world is rid of Palestinian terrorists the better, don't see any problem with Israel shooting them personally. Maybe if they stopped firing rockets they wouldn't get shot.

      The real solution is more accurate weapons so that more terrorists can be killed with fewer civilians getting killed by accident. The only problem there is sometimes an innocent person gets it instead of a terrorist.
      Jul 17, 2018
  • Marvell 95050
    Seriously some Chinese from the mainland are super rude. Not the Americanized ones so much though. I think this is how they behave in China. Sorry this happened to you. You should’ve said something to them but nothing racial bc then you lose all credibility.
    Jul 16, 2018 0
  • Oracle Service
    Yeah, I help you and then you sue me. That’s what Americans do, sue. I personally try not to be a Good Samaritan in this country. There are thousands of such examples.

    And your entitled attitude is a big red flag. And yes, you do sound racist. There’s no need to mention they were Chinese. It adds no value to this story, other than you being a possible racist.
    Jul 16, 2018 3
    • Oath Pooch
      OP
      I think you dislike Americans more than someone might or might not dislike Chinese. Red flag much?
      Jul 16, 2018
    • Oracle Service
      Yeah, I have low confidence in you. You voted Trump. Enough said.
      Jul 16, 2018
    • Microsoft / Eng
      Whereisthe

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      Whereisthemore
      Pooch is not American.
      Jul 16, 2018
  • Amazon / Eng sde3
    They wanted to eliminate a potential bidding competitor.
    Jul 16, 2018 0
  • Amazon / Eng Benny Lava
    I heard in china a lot of fraudsters will fall and whoever touches him will end up getting sued. They don't have a good Samaritan law there.

    Sadly, they probably think this is the American version.
    Jul 16, 2018 2
    • True. There have also been cases where the accident was legitimate (not staged) and the victim blamed the good samaritan in order to get compensation
      Jul 16, 2018
    • Oath Pooch
      OP
      This oddly makes sense
      Jul 16, 2018
  • eBay eyxitsjtj
    They might yet not know that interacting with strangers and offering help is fine in America. Add to it potential language barrier.

    Back home, there are just so many people and so many incidences one comes across daily that people just learn to ignore everything that goes around and keep focused on getting their own shit done. That’s what people here mean when they say “its a cultural thing”.
    Jul 16, 2018 0
  • Amazon / Eng llwpwp
    is the title about yourself?
    Jul 16, 2018 0
  • Amazon / Product AxGj47
    Jul 16, 2018 0
  • Twitter
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    Get up and move on.
    Jul 16, 2018 0
  • Facebook Elohssa
    Do more leetcode scrub! Nobody wants to help a low tc!
    Jul 16, 2018 0
  • New fckfang
    Maybe it's bc they were startled and didn't want to get involved? Way to put urself in others shoes u set-centered 56
    Jul 16, 2018 0
  • Google balondor
    Dude are you sure you just fell accidentally?
    Jul 16, 2018 0