Since I’ve been seeing so many posts about this, I wanted to make a quick rundown based on statistics and based on my experiences. This should apply to all non white men here. For reference, I’m pakistani who grew up in Britain and have now lived in the Bay Area for quite a while. 1. You are at an extreme (probably the most important out of these points) disadvantage dating anyone who grew up in the West if you specifically have a heavy Asian or Indian accent due to the unfortunate negative stereotypes of them. Having an American accent removes a ton of hurdles you would potentially have to deal with. If you have an accent that has positive stereotypes such as a British or Australian one, you are at an advantage, and this has personally helped me a ton. 2. If you’re in the Bay Area, and to be honest, any part of America, you are at a statistical disadvantage if you’re not white. Even if you make the same money and are at the same level of attractiveness physically and have similar personalities and ideals. 3. Many women will (although not all) assume certain things about your culture and the way you think simply by your race. This applies to women of any race as long as they grew up in the West. Most of them will never admit this publicly and a lot of this only comes up in casual private conversation, so it is important to be aware of this. My current girlfriend who is white has multiple times told me about how her friends (mostly white but some non white but all American born) have privately asked her things like “lol, aren’t his parents going to hate you?” “is he possessive?” “what if you guys end up wanting to marry? wouldn’t it be weird for your parents?” Of course she shut these notions down to her friends but the point is if I, a person who’s only “Pakistani characteristic” is loving the food can be grouped into stereotypes, you sure as hell bet some guy from China who just started working at Google on an H1B will be definitely stereotyped as well.
The preoccupation with white women is weird.
Dude you’re so cool bro, how can I be like you?
Dinesh, is it you?
Awesome post!
Fir se shuru ho gaye BC 🤦🏻♂️ Bandh karo yeh bakchodi.
TC or GTFO!
These sex starved, self doubting and stupid posts are doing more harm than good to Indian stereotype. I am glad I have some really good Indian co-workers who are not like idiots here. I am glad the pretty girl (Indian/ may be Mrs. Nutella #7?) I am dating is not racist like morons here.
What’s stupid about this post? Give me specifics. Did not mention a particular race of women. No self doubt. Some people here love to call everything stupid when a sensitive but indeed factual topic like this comes up yet are all ears and are ready to help if a white person posts something like “How do I find Asian or Indian women specifically? Help please!”
Read what you posted again and you tell me.
As an American white Male, I'd agree with the sentiments of OPs post. Most white girls I've known in my life prefer white guys. Some white girls wouldn't even entertain the thought of dating a guy who wasn't white. I even know a bunch of non white girls, some from other countries, who prefer white guys. This is not to say that non white guys have no chance, your just simply at an uphill battle. As I've traveled to other countries around the world, one common thing I've noticed is that a lot of models you see in ads are white and/ or not from the country that the ad is in
Most Hispanic/Mestizo girls prefer Mestizo guys as well.
like joe wong said, we’re all different shades of mexicans
A humblebrag wrapped in a TLDR. Nicely done.
I’m not sure what part of the post consists of bragging about anything. Just wrote this to potentially make things clear for anyone who thinks they may be struggling because of their ethnicity given my experiences. Didn’t mean to rub anything off the wrong way.
The first rule of a humblebrag: Never admit you’re humblebragging.