This question is primarily for Indian women here who are married and whose husbands send money to support their aging parents. Also would ljke to head from married men who send money back to India to their parents. Do you usually think it’s unfair for husbands to send money back to parents - do you have a limit you think is the max? I take home around$8400 per month- my wife has been going ballistic on me for sending $200 every month. She tells me that $200 per month is too lavish and that my mom is overspending for a lavish lifestyle. Am I being unfair here? It’s a lot of emotional strain that I am taking. I would like some help understanding how others approach this.
Sounds like your wife is a selfish b**ch - excuse my language.
What I did is I bought an apartment which my parents are renting out and take the money - no need to send every month.