Sexual Harrassment

It's clear that the Post Office doesn't have a zero tolerance for Sexual Harassment. My homosexual supervisor touches me inappropriately and moves to a better paying position, while I have to stay in the same location, where everybody knows the situation and suppress my mental anguish. This is clearly unfair.

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Amazon weeeeeeee Nov 29, 2019

Today I learned USPS employees are on this app. Hope you can work through this problem, OP.

T-Mobile tk3m6w Nov 29, 2019

All companies in the world can join, though many will not have the number of employees needed to not be NEW

United States Postal Service xcUW55 OP Nov 29, 2019

I can't, mentally I'm not in a good place

Intel D’s🥜 Nov 29, 2019

Did your supervisor touch your shoulder? Or go straight for the gooch? I only ask, because the “homosexual” part has no relation to sexual harassment. My immediate thought is that you would treat your supervisor differently than another coworker elbowing your shoulder for a joke. #JustBoomerThings

Amazon oVIH81 Nov 29, 2019

Yea agree. The homosexual identifier added nothing to the story, except to give me context on how OP probably feels about gay people...

T-Mobile tk3m6w Nov 29, 2019

Might be worse for men who are not gay to be sexually touched by another man than by a woman (since majority percentage of humans are biologically attracted to the opposite sex). I have never been sexually assaulted, so I do not know which one would be worse.

Credit Karma EllisDee25 Nov 29, 2019

Sorry to hear about that. Have you formally reported this to anyone - it was unclear from your post. Are you in the union? If not I guess HR would be your only course. Even if everyone in your dept knows something, it doesn’t mean anyone will act on strong suspicion or an open secret.

United States Postal Service xcUW55 OP Nov 29, 2019

I did report it, but it doesn't seem as though they are taking it seriously... and it was confirmed by the accompanying supervisor who witnessed it and giggled at it

TrueCar eGqf85 Nov 29, 2019

I think the bigger problem is that you’re homophobic...

United States Postal Service xcUW55 OP Nov 29, 2019

I'm not homophobic, I am a flamboyant heterosexual and I would have never thought this guy would do this to me, I talk about my girlfriend all the time.

Goldman Sachs drakegoldm Nov 29, 2019

Though this is only one sided, we’ll take it from your end. Rule #1 Documentation, Documentation, Documentation. Keep track of dates, times, names of people who will help prove your case.

United States Postal Service xcUW55 OP Nov 29, 2019

Thank you

Overstock.com 🦕$🦖 Nov 29, 2019

Did you report him? How is HR supposed to do anything when they don't know about it?

Amazon BlindIy Nov 29, 2019

By reading minds of course!

Amazon BlindIy Nov 29, 2019

While I don’t think the homosexual descriptor has much relevance with the story. I would be curious as to the sex of OP and the supervisor. I don’t think sexual harassment is treated the same based on the sex of the victim/sex of the harasser.

United States Postal Service xcUW55 OP Nov 29, 2019

I agree... because I am a heterosexual male and he is a homosexual male, I don't think they are weighing it the same as if it was a female victim

Amazon BlindIy Nov 29, 2019

Yup, men are strong and independent and don’t need any help. That stereotype has both pros and cons. This sadly is one of the cons.

Medtronic itisfriday Nov 29, 2019

Contact local newspaper

United States Postal Service xcUW55 OP Nov 29, 2019

I'm not homophobic, I am a heterosexual male, I never thought that I would be touched on my bottom by anyone much less a supervisor... another supervisor was present and no reported it to the Post Master, until I made the complaint. I feel because I'm a guy they aren't taking it seriously. I'm not in a good place mentally from this situation, and I reported it to the union but they couldn't do anything with it, I contacted HR and they were fact finding, the other supervisor wrote a statement confirming that he did the inappropriate touching. I was thinking about speaking to my local newspaper but unsure as to what that may do.

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lHpK84 Nov 29, 2019

Depending on your location, this may be considered simple assault and reportable to the local police. Also, you may look at filing with the USPS OIG, they should have one. Edit: your union should be advising you on this; if they got nothing for you, consider an MSPB or FLRA complaint for failure to represent while you're at it.

United States Postal Service xcUW55 OP Nov 30, 2019

I didn't know I could file something on the union, but I will look into it