Super sexually attracted to my dates but need to pick one to sleep with.
I’m dating a few people and find all super attractive. I’m kind of old (37) and don’t have time to play around. Here are my options
- Data scientist at google - really nice guy but his personality too logical for my taste. Same age as me. (37) valuable Google RSUs 🤣 but not sure of compatibility. I’ve known him for 2 years and he’s always been super patient, a quality I really value
- QA engineer at Apple - he’s super sweet and very caring. Not a typical QA engineer. He can talk about his feelings and can communicate. Boyfriend material for sure. he’s very young. (31)
- program manager who’s starting his own company. He’s 35. Drives Tesla X (?) I was suspicious at first bc most single guys don’t drive Tesla X. He took me to Napa and spent the whole weekend w me. But we did not sleep together. Cuddled only. He says he’s looking for a serious relationship but I’m kind of still suspicious.
- 43 yo guy. Divorced. We dated last year but broke things off bc his divorce situation. He’s coming back now and trying to patch things up w me. He mentioned his birthday last week and wants to celebrate it with me. I said yes but have been avoiding him so far. We did sleep together last year. Had a lot of sexual compatibility.
Another solution is keep dating until things are more clear.