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I am hetero and about to get married. I have never been keen on another man. However when I was a kid (circa 10) my friend and I who was also a boy used to get naked and make out. Has anyone else had their first experience be with the same gender?
Ok. Is this seriously FOMO for being straight? I want to draw the line for everyone right here. Just because we all accept and embrace homosexuals doesn't mean we are all homosexuals deep down. Stop overanalyzing your past, your potential future, and other people's behavior for clues about who you might be. If you want to bang a dude, bang a dude. If you want to bang a woman, bang a woman. If you want to sit on your couch and eat potato chips, by all means have at it. Just live your life and do what is real for you right now.
Was it your idea or his? Not sure the connection on your pending nuptials (congrats btw) and the adolescent play. Been with both. Started with both. Still like both.
Young kids do all kinds of stuff before they understand what they're doing. Ask any teacher that works with them. And even as we get older, people often feel like trying out multiple roles or sex acts just out of curiosity. The idea of the heretosexual vs homosexual dichotomy is a fairly recent invention.
Yep, I can kind of relate. I'm currently happily married to my husband for 5yr. I used to have a friend (girl) that I would make out with when I was 15. She was the first person I got with and that experience certainly had me confused about my sexual preferences. In retrospect, I was naive at the time and enjoyed the attention/being pleased physically? other than that and over time, after I got intimate with men, it's men that Im more attracted to than women. Certain things that women don't have 😉 So it all depends on which gender gets you going! I wouldn't count your first experience as of significance as you were only 10 at the time and most likely on an exploratory phase
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I did not happen have that experience, but it seems completely standard to me. If I had gone to a same-sex school or something, who knows? Probably not only because I remember running away when a girl tried to kiss me at that age. I was too shy for anything like that until I was a few years older and by then my preference was pretty clear to me. People do, and should, try many different experiences. It’s a big part of what humans are all about. We’re social animals with a biology developed for mutually enjoyable sexual activities. Humans flirt and fool around rather than have mating seasons like some other mammals :D
Do you still think about men?
Never
Then, carry on. Kids do weird things out of curiosity and was probably safer than with a girl. I've heard of this kind of thing with both genders. It's usually innocent. Firmly believe if you're gay, you know it. The interest and urge for your own sex never stops.