I am in a situation where I have an offer from a top-tier company. Same salary, less RSUs, less bonus and lower title. I am very torn. My current boss is brilliant in business but miserable at EQ and horrible at modern HR (even though that is her role). She doesn’t connect with her reports at individual levels and is demeaning, presumptive and dictatorial. Borderline abusive. At the same time, I’d hate to give up, as I am learning a lot, but suffering in process. Do I tell her about other offer and try and explore if we can minimize the things that are bothering me (and others) or is this a lost cause?
Go to your skip level, tell them you’re willing to leave because of xyz manager, and you’d considering staying if you change managers (if you’re ok with that).