Random story, upvote if you want more of my drama. Visiting a city that's a giant military hub, had breakfast with a qt and then went for a walk downtown. We ended up getting into her car (super hard convincing her to go to her place; that should have been a red flag) and she drove me to her work parking lot. She works at a huge university. As we start getting it on in the car, she says she's uneasy going all the way. Seemed strange given our age and how slutty she's been up to this point. Turns out that her current boy is proudly serving the glorious US of A on a deployment. I'm ethically against US military campaigns (and not even an American), should I go a-head (pun intended) with this? Give me some advice, Blind!
Don't be an ahole. Feel free to date her, but for Christ sake ask that she at least come clean and break it off with her bf first. Save your conscience.
if you wish to be shot down by her bf when he gets back go ahead. seriously though wtf your anti-military stance has to do with moral principles of marriage? how these 2 things are even connected in your head?
Where's the marriage aspect? I'm against the military, I don't believe this guy is making the world a better place, hence it's ethical to not act ethically towards him
i am surprised you don’t get it. it’s not about him. it’s about you. it is absolutely irrelevant what another dude does if you act as an asshole. you are just an asshole in the end.
That's her problem, until you marry her and it will be your problem.
I like the way you think
Will he send me a message starting with "I'll have you know I graduated top of my class in the Navy Seals, and I've been involved in numerous secret raids on Al-Quaeda, and I have over 300 confirmed kills. I am trained in gorilla warfare and I'm the top sniper in the entire US armed forces. You are nothing to me but just another target. I will wipe you the fuck out with precision the likes of which has never been seen before on this Earth, mark my fucking words."...?
Do as you feel. There will be other takers.
It’s immoral to sleep with a married person. If morality doesn’t matter to you, sky is the limit.
Honestly surprised OP didn’t work for Facebook
Only turned them down bc they didn't match the offer
If I were in your shoes not only would I not keep dating her, I would probably try to tell the other guy. Cheaters are the fucking worst.
TC?
You’re more concerned that her boyfriend is military than the fact that she’s a cheater?
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Show her your TC
She'll be even more disappointed then 😂