Tinder girl has a guy in the military - how to proceed?

Google USApotato
May 15 40 Comments

Random story, upvote if you want more of my drama.

Visiting a city that's a giant military hub, had breakfast with a qt and then went for a walk downtown. We ended up getting into her car (super hard convincing her to go to her place; that should have been a red flag) and she drove me to her work parking lot. She works at a huge university. As we start getting it on in the car, she says she's uneasy going all the way. Seemed strange given our age and how slutty she's been up to this point.

Turns out that her current boy is proudly serving the glorious US of A on a deployment.

I'm ethically against US military campaigns (and not even an American), should I go a-head (pun intended) with this?

Give me some advice, Blind!

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TOP 40 Comments
  • Amazon / Mgmtpalmface
    if you wish to be shot down by her bf when he gets back go ahead.

    seriously though wtf your anti-military stance has to do with moral principles of marriage? how these 2 things are even connected in your head?
    May 158
    • Google USApotato
      OP
      Where's the marriage aspect? I'm against the military, I don't believe this guy is making the world a better place, hence it's ethical to not act ethically towards him
      May 15
    • Amazon / Mgmtpalmface
      i am surprised you don’t get it.

      it’s not about him. it’s about you.

      it is absolutely irrelevant what another dude does if you act as an asshole. you are just an asshole in the end.
      May 15
    • Google USApotato
      OP
      No, what the other dude does is crucial. It's ethically ok to put a criminal in jail but not a random person from the street, right.
      May 15
    • Amazon / Mgmtpalmface
      well. so it makes it ok to put a criminal to jail and then rape his wife because what she’s criminal’s wife anyways so it doesn’t really matter what you do? is this the way you think?
      May 15
    • Your moral compass is broken man. Not everyone in the military is an asshole. Many of them don’t support the wars we are in but joined to get out of poverty and/or pay for college.
      May 15
    • Google USApotato
      OP
      1) it's ok to put a criminal in jail
      2) not ok to rape his wife. Is it ok to have consensual sex with her? That's the question
      3) the world's smallest violin is playing just for the poor folks who have to go slaughter in the Middle East
      May 15
    • Amazon / Mgmtpalmface
      that’s exactly the question of is it ok to have sex with someone’s wife. it’s irrelevant what that person does.
      May 15
    • Clover Health sinkinship
      Hot damn you're a piece of work OP. I fucking loathe the US military, but you have no idea what Ethics even is.
      May 15
  • Google mksee
    Don't be an ahole. Feel free to date her, but for Christ sake ask that she at least come clean and break it off with her bf first. Save your conscience.
    May 153
    • Google USApotato
      OP
      I'm just visiting, that's making it easy for both of us. Question is: should I go all the way with her tonight?
      May 15
    • Amazon
      ps.ily

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      No
      May 15
    • Just go for it, no regrets, and enjoy. If not, there’s someone next in line.
      Be safe
      May 15
  • Pandora / Engctiv08
    That's her problem, until you marry her and it will be your problem.
    May 158
    • Google USApotato
      OP
      I like the way you think
      May 15
    • Microsoft BarFoo
      Until she comes clean, tells him everything, and in a PTSD fit of rage he hunts you down and kills you.
      May 15
    • Google USApotato
      OP
      Will he send me a message starting with "I'll have you know I graduated top of my class in the Navy Seals, and I've been involved in numerous secret raids on Al-Quaeda, and I have over 300 confirmed kills. I am trained in gorilla warfare and I'm the top sniper in the entire US armed forces. You are nothing to me but just another target. I will wipe you the fuck out with precision the likes of which has never been seen before on this Earth, mark my fucking words."...?
      May 15
    • Microsoft BarFoo
      He may. Or he may just show up and kill you and you won’t even see it coming. Depends on his mood, and whether or not he already killed his girlfriend.
      May 15
    • Datto, Inc. / R&DKlokov_v2
      @OP

      If this hub happens to be San Diego then there’s a good chance this guy could be a SEAL. The Navy’s Coronado base is there, and guess what it’s famous for? The SEAL selection process happens there, leading to a ton of SEALs in the area.
      May 15
    • Google USApotato
      OP
      FML.
      Rip me
      May 15
    • Datto, Inc. / R&DKlokov_v2
      Does she have your number?
      May 15
    • Amazon
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      It’s pretty obvious OP is talking about SD and UCSD/SD State. I’ve met a few Navy SEALS/drone operators, their kill count is in the hundreds lol
      May 15
  • New ahdhdb
    Just do it man. She’s a hoe, not remotely your problem. The people who are saying no are crazy. Just don’t fall for her because she’ll do the same to you.
    May 153
    • Amazon
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      Banging someone who’s in a relationship reeks of desperation from those that can’t get any of their own 🤔
      May 15
    • New ahdhdb
      I mean sex just for fun is a commodity, so you shouldn’t care where you’re getting it from as long as you have physical chemistry. I’ve done it many times.

      If this was a relationship my answer would be to run away as fast as he can, cheaters will never ever changed. I myself have never cheated, but unfortunately experienced it first hand and learned the lesson by dating a woman who was cheating and thought she would change for me. I was young lol.
      May 15
    • Amazon
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      With that logic we should be having sex with 15 year olds or completely drunk women because “physical chemistry”. To each to their own though, OP was asking for opinions
      May 15
  • Google PCBro
    TC?
    May 153
    • Google USApotato
      OP
      250k, so more than anyone in the military 😎
      May 15
    • Amazon
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      You sound a bit insecure with military men 😂
      May 15
    • Google PCBro
      Yeah definitely don't want the military guy to find out lol
      May 16
  • Google USApotato
    OP
    Okay guys I've gotten 3 likes on this post and most of you misread it. I'm not going to marry her. I'm not going to date her. But she'll make for a fun toy tonight 😎

    I'll keep you posted on my adventures! Stay thirsty, Bay area and Seattle
    May 151
    • Microsoft / Engsunofa🍑
      Thirsty in Seattle? Dude, open our weather forecast for the next few weeks. No need to even look for a date.
      May 17
  • Cimpress / EngGBmf58
    If I were in your shoes not only would I not keep dating her, I would probably try to tell the other guy.
    Cheaters are the fucking worst.
    May 150
  • Intel apsodj
    It’s immoral to sleep with a married person. If morality doesn’t matter to you, sky is the limit.
    May 150
  • Indeed *NDEED
    You’re more concerned that her boyfriend is military than the fact that she’s a cheater?
    May 150
  • IBM / EngLeavingIBM
    Show her your TC
    May 151
    • Google USApotato
      OP
      She'll be even more disappointed then 😂
      May 15
  • Amazon
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    Honestly surprised OP didn’t work for Facebook
    May 151
    • Google USApotato
      OP
      Only turned them down bc they didn't match the offer
      May 15
  • CrowdStrike hQxj31
    Do as you feel. There will be other takers.
    May 150

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