TC 305k, over 30 years old and finally look past my mid twenties which I am fine with, engineer, just enough nerdiness to hang with my nerd peeps, every day I dress well and do my makeup well (it’s a hobby), I have interesting outdoorsey activities that keep me in shape, 37-25-37, 5’4”, 110lbs, 32D, long hair/great skin/straight teeth etc, financially stable, easygoing af, been proposed to or almost got married 4 times plus lived with some boyfriends seriously, INTP, speak multiple languages, know a ton about music/haute and pop culture/food (I.e. I’m not an insulated Leetcode nerd), well educated, have good friends I can turn to, have more matches on dating apps than I can keep up with....
and I will never settle down for a dude who doesn’t meet my standards. If that means I end up alone then that’s fine because being alone is awesoooome and I would be cool having a kid alone and my family would also be cool with it. Let the woman haters and incels come out. Idgaf. Dudes need to step up their game and my friends say they agree with me. 💁🏻♀️
Just want to say you're not alone. It's ok for life to not be perfect. If you are ok going single forever, that's fine. But do date around a bit. Sometimes the guys who don't meet your bar are actually what you've been looking for.
It's ok for life to not be perfect. Choose your imperfections well.