I just signed with Apple to move from LA to Cupertino. I am currently working from home but shitty manager is forcing me to leave. So now my TC went up by 25% but I’m freaking out and having panic attacks. Have not worked in an office for 5 years now and am so used to wfh lifestyle. Can someone please help calm my mind down and assure me Apple will be great? I’ll be joining the is&s org. Also my wife and kids won’t move up north initially — and could take months and months, all the meanwhile I’ll be living alone. Ohhh god what have I done!! Any and all support is truly welcome 🙏 Thanks a bunch, blinders.
Calm down, Apple will be great
TC?
Total Compensation
I dont think that was what the person was asking..
It will be fine. You will learn new things and meet new people.
Did you bring up working from home during negotiations? They probably could have worked something out
They wanted me to relocate
I just did the same. Worked from home past 7 years and just started at amazon. I love it so far
Did you have to relocate? Are you away from your family? That’s hard.
I was overseas for over a year during my military career from my family. You gotta do what's best for the long run. You will be fine. You can contact via Skype/phone and have work to keep your mind right. Exercise, go out with coworkers, explore the new area etc.
First, let me shake your hand for your military service and say thank you :) And second thanks for the solid advice. Getting into Apple (and in a good org) is s good strategic move. Like you said, one must sacrifice for the long term gain. You sound like a solid dude, so you live in the Bay Area?
You are married , you have kids , and you are asking Blind to calm you down for not being able to WFH ? Grow up my friend.
How did I end up a part of this mentally weak generation? I guess it wouldn’t be so bad, except I’m allergic to all the “emotional support” dogs people take everywhere.
The living apart from his family for months part seems like a way bigger deal
Bad move
Living alone means going into the office is a good move, you'll meet new people and get integrated into the area faster. WFH in an empty house drains your sanity.
Yep.. Especially when you're living alone you'll appreciate the company..