What are some good spots to meet quality men in Bay Area ?

Goldman Sachs Please🥺
Nov 3 104 Comments

Will be visiting Bay Area from NYC for a few months .... and if things go well at work and otherwise i may decide to move there ... so need some advice ...

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  • Do quality men even exist? Bay area or anywhere else? 🤔
    Nov 3 20
    • Roku cruella
      I am not being nasty. And not on anyone elses behalf.

      I am dishing to OP what they themselves serve and on my own behalf.

      Now u stop being a white knight. Thank you very much.
      Nov 3
    • Softvision AOoB63
      basic misogynist spotted 😏
      @op - ignore him lol
      Nov 3
    • American Express gandalf$$
      Lol @ people thinking op is a woman. That’s a dude with an Adam’s apple trying to gauge the competition in the Bay Area. Op, men in nyc have much better game so you have nothing to worry about, other than the shortage of women of course.
      Nov 3
    • Goldman Sachs Please🥺
      OP
      @amex - why ? Because women can’t ask about where and how to meet men ?
      Nov 3
    • Flagged by the community.

  • Symantec Calpornian
    Blind. Quantity plenty. Quality doubtful!
    Nov 3 2
    • Goldman Sachs Please🥺
      OP
      That’s why I said quality
      Nov 3
    • Symantec Calpornian
      Quality is a numbers game!
      Nov 3
  • Roku cruella
    Ur odds are good.
    But the goods are odd.
    Nov 3 3
    • Goldman Sachs Please🥺
      OP
      It’s the same everywhere
      Nov 3
    • Roku cruella
      For you, I would agree.
      Nov 3
    • Compass HWV39
      Spike ball, favorite game of beta males.
      Nov 3
  • Microsoft Sexybeast
    Quality men meaning?? Good looks? Kind heart? Funny? Rich? What if he has a kind heart and a meagre bank balance? Or a handsome jerk? Or rich and 5’5”? 🤔
    Nov 3 5
    • Goldman Sachs Please🥺
      OP
      Basic human decency, integrity ,empathetic ....
      Nov 3
    • Microsoft Sexybeast
      Oh please. Looks matter. Don’t hide that! If Brad Pitt asks you out, even though he is a known womaniser, will you decline? 🤔
      Nov 3
    • Goldman Sachs Please🥺
      OP
      Well what i find attractive in a person is diff from what another woman does .... varies from person to person
      Nov 3
    • Microsoft Sexybeast
      Fair enough then. I have no idea where you will find one. Just hope that you find one. 🤗
      Nov 3
    • Goldman Sachs Please🥺
      OP
      Thanks .... 🥰
      Nov 3
  • New / Mgmt mi gente
    Quality men appreciate good grammar.
    Nov 3 5
    • Goldman Sachs Please🥺
      OP
      I don’t mind you correcting my grammatical mistakes ... please go ahead
      Nov 3
    • Compass HWV39
      Good head is a great substitute
      Nov 3
    • Goldman Sachs Please🥺
      OP
      @compass - getting head is like karma ... you get what you give 🤷🏻‍♀️
      Nov 3
    • New / Mgmt mi gente
      Great attitude helps too
      Nov 3
    • Compass HWV39
      69
      Nov 3
  • Microsoft °bluеsky°
    Quality?
    Sounds like something Whole Foods might have. Quality, no antibiotics, pasture raised.
    Nov 3 4
    • You mean "whole checks" 😂 perfect for Blinders!!! 😂
      Nov 3
    • Goldman Sachs Please🥺
      OP
      @ Microsoft - along the same lines… No misogyny, empathetically raised ...
      Nov 3
    • Microsoft °bluеsky°
      Local or imported is okay? The later ones have bigger greenhouse impact.
      Nov 3
    • Goldman Sachs Please🥺
      OP
      Either as long as they are organic and fresh
      Nov 3
  • LinkedIn don'tsay
    How do you rate your self in looks? Out of 10?
    If you're good then you will have a plenty of men 🙂
    Nov 3 3
    • Goldman Sachs Please🥺
      OP
      Probably 5
      Nov 3
    • LinkedIn don'tsay
      That's why you're struggling. Just try to be in a shape, 6-7 would be fine
      Nov 3
    • Apple hfbrt
      I agree. There are plenty single dudes here (including me). Quality men in my definition often take care of themselves, and hence like women who take care of themselves too.

      That said, don't judge guys so quickly which is easy to do considering the options. What eventually would happen is, no one would be good enough.
      Nov 4
  • Twitch tftchamp
    Castro
    Nov 3 0
  • Autodesk witches
    This is a very vague question. No one knows what you consider a quality man. If you are trying to meet people that you think you could get along with look up things you are interested in as hobbies and find out about that community and if there will be some sort of event while you are in town. Go out, meet people and you will generally find what you might specifically be looking for.
    Nov 3 3
    • Goldman Sachs Please🥺
      OP
      But it’s difficult to so with a hectic work schedule ...
      Nov 3
    • Autodesk witches
      Fair enough. Having a busy schedule is real tough. It’s still hard to say what would work for you in terms of what is a quality guy. Scumbags are everywhere but so are decent people looking to genuinely meet someone. All that being said here are a random assortment of places.

      Climbing gyms - hit or miss depending on what activities you are into

      Power exchange - depending on your level of kink

      Novella or local edition - ok bar scene

      Academy of science night life - lots of people could strike up a conversation if you are more of the outgoing type

      Tartine - get some bread make some friends. Again easier if you are the outgoing type
      Nov 3
    • Goldman Sachs Please🥺
      OP
      Thanks you for the suggestions ...
      Nov 3
  • Lenovo fbsjow
    Google, Apple, Tesla
    Nov 3 2
    • Goldman Sachs Please🥺
      OP
      I said quality
      Nov 3
    • Roku cruella
      And Lenovo. Don't underestimate urself.

      Wait unless u moved to G, A or T. In that case don't overestimate yourself.
      Nov 3
  • Verizon Media Igpay
    RIP, your inbox
    Nov 3 2
    • Yelp JMP2
      OP didn't say their gender yet
      Nov 3
    • Verizon Media Igpay
      Doesn’t matter on here. lol

      Also OP didn’t post TC. How do we know if OP is qualified?
      Nov 3
  • Apple Azrael3
    Obvious troll is obvious
    Nov 3 1
  • Quality men wont be on Dating apps. You’ll find them playing Fifa instead.
    Nov 3 5
    • Goldman Sachs Please🥺
      OP
      Well do they do anything else ? Or just that ? Cause I’m not into playing FIFA
      Nov 3
    • I am just saying its better to use the talent elsewhere than dating apps. So anyone who knows that is smart and of quality!

      And better at treating a lady.
      Nov 3
    • Goldman Sachs Please🥺
      OP
      I agree ... but somehow I tend to make friends in causal setting not boyfriends lol ... not sure what’s wrong with me 🤦🏻‍♀️
      Nov 3
    • It’s exhausting but you’ll get one.
      Ps: dont try dating people who would have PM-ed you already 😂
      Nov 3
    • Goldman Sachs Please🥺
      OP
      Ha ha that’s a lesson I learnt early on
      Nov 3
  • Uber TJPU63
    Try Coffee meets bagel, tinder, okc... the usual suspects.
    Nov 3 4
    • Goldman Sachs Please🥺
      OP
      Those don’t even work in NYC ...
      Nov 3
    • Microsoft Sexybeast
      Tinder won’t work in New York? Man, you will get 8 out of 10 matches if you keep on right swiping there!
      Nov 3
    • Goldman Sachs Please🥺
      OP
      I mean no quality men there ... mostly people who just want to f*ck around
      Nov 3
    • Microsoft Sexybeast
      Oh. Okay. 😂
      Nov 3
  • GrubHub westonrtr
    If you’re a guy, then come to Castro Street.
    If you’re a woman, I suggest a plane trip to LA or San Diego.
    Nov 3 2
    • +1 😂
      Nov 3
    • Goldman Sachs Please🥺
      OP
      I don’t think I stand a chance in LA ... women have waists their size of my arms 😬
      Nov 3
  • Apple Azrael3
    OP, you need to take a hard look at your list of requirements vs what you offer. Even in Bay Area, good guys have plenty of options as they are rarer to find. Make sure you don’t have latent hypocrisies in your mind (example: needing a very tall guy while being below average in height)
    Nov 4 0
  • Compass HWV39
    Hide the banana. Popular sport at Amazon.
    Nov 3 0
  • Yonder Jep beezo
    They're all taken already. Sorry
    Nov 3 1
    • Goldman Sachs Please🥺
      OP
      Or dead or gay ... That is intact truth
      Nov 3
  • Salesforce ©️RM
    Boba shops
    Nov 3 1
  • Uber weyupp
    Leetcoding male traveling by BART trains !
    Nov 3 0

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