T.C 160 Have been bitten by the friend-zone bug. Getting over her is hard. But I think I misread cues. If there are specific indicators, to know if a girl perceives you as ‘more than a friend’ that would be great
She sticks out her left hand
She breathes, she's a thot
Instead of guessing. Just ask if she would like to go on a date? She’ll know that is not just being friends. Some girls put guys in friend zone bc they like s backup option but if that’s taken away they will make a decision.
You ask and then they say - ‘we are such great friends and all this will mess things up.. and i have never really thought about you ...’ and just what feels like random excuses. And its just painful to hear them.
If that's what she says, then she definitely does not view you as more than a friend. Continuing to spend a lot of time with her while you still have feelings will be unhealthy for both of you.
If she is interested in getting into a relationship with you, then she views you as more than a friend. Tell her how you feel. If she isn't interested, move on. Probably stop spending a lot of time with her until your feelings subside. Focus on something/someone else.
If a girl is into you and is interested in dating, you would know. The fact that you're asking this question indicates that you're probably deep in the friend zone.
How would I know? What would be the defining trait here? She once said that if I don’t meet her on a given day, she actually ‘misses me and it feels that the day was somehow incomplete’ but then when I directly ask her out, I am just considered a plain friend
She looks at you as someone that is emotionally fulfilling without probably viewing you as boyfriend material. Time to start looking at her as a friend and nothing else and move on.
Dang that’s the story of my life. Lol
If would go ahead and ask her. If she says yes, great! Else I would simply go and invest all the time for myself. Health, knowledge and love for family are worth my time! Don't sleep over with thoughts and waste your time. Ask her and take your route! Simple!
Never ask her! It shows you’re weak and reduces her attraction level. Just be a man and do what you needed to do. “Two steps forward one step back” and other tricks on youtube are quite helpful making her fall for you
Shows you’re weak - what’s this John Wayne style romance? Love shows vulnerability and some women care about that :)
Lol, not sure mindfucking anyone into liking you correlates positively to happiness. If your partner doesn't like you for you, what chances of success does a relationship have. Say what you mean, mean what you say, be yourself, have fun. Nobody will ever confuse directness for weakness. Fuck that noise. If you have to play mind games to get a girl interested in you, you probably suck and should just be working on yourself anyway.
Ask her if she wants a mint. If she says no, then she is not interested
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TC has no bearing. Approach carefully - if you two are on the same page, expect fireworks. If not, you may lose a friend. Good luck! Guy here. Don’t talk much instead listen and you may some clues.