you say you’re not good looking like it’s not changeable but when’s the last time you actually tried at the gym? exercise not only makes you look better but it is immensely good for your self confidence.
There are no shortcuts. If you want confidence, you have to have things to be confident about. Live the life you really want to live. Challenge yourself, aim higher than where you are now. Face your fears.
I worry (not really, definitely a figure of speech) about the many who use this app and seem anchored in life based purely on where they work and how much they make. They seem like empty shells beyond those two things.
Self-confidence is what you have left when all of the material world is stripped away: character, knowledge, wisdom, capability, belief in and love of self, independence, relationships, spirituality, health. These all play a vital part in your level of self confidence. Cultivate that, the rest tends to take care of itself.
Fking Blind app man. Makes me feel safe, and therefore confident the other losers got my back.
I don't know any of you but I feel a natural connection to the community here. People have helped me a lot too. DMs to help deal with a personal thing. Two people gave me their phone numbers and helped me prep for F/G interviews. Insane.