Details would help. I've dated girls, but can't say I loved any of my exes. There was attraction, and we shared some good moments (like trips and vacations together), but not to the point where I knew it's definitelly love. I have pretty active social life, and meet many people. However sometimes the fact that i can't distinguish love from a simple crush makes me feel empty and very lonely.
"I promised myself I would never fall in love with you, because I knew all the consequences. But it was 4am, and we were laughing way too hard, when I felt something different. I was happy in a long time, and I realized I was screwed."
I knew it was love because I didn't want it but had it anyway. So many people squint and lean in hard and make little things into big things because they really want or think they should be in love. I was lucky enough to have someone I moved away from and still talked to, who was a good friend while I hadgirlfriends, and who I kept finding myself looking at at those times when it was appropriate. (Basically, I didnt cheat on anyone, or even want to) basically the 'when harry met Sally' scenario. You will know love, because love is the * wildcard. It's what you have when you get rid of all the stuff you recognize. Just keep in mind that you can easily love terrible, destructive, people that will derail your life. Love doesn't mean its endorsed by the universe or anything. There is no wisdom there, just potential.
I felt in love with my sweetheart since teens - have never gotten out of it. Helps me overcome all sorts of stress and grief. My dearest left hand - my love!
For me it's the communication I had and have with my girl. Been together for 5 years now and we know each other like the back of our hands. She became my bestfriend. So for me I realized it when I saw that we weren't afraid to communicate things to each other and grew this amazing friendship within our own relationship.
Envy you. I can easily talk to girls and break ice, but it never moves to any deep convos. Not sure if it's them or me who is the issue
I knew I was the problem for a long time. I'm very picky and I got bored really easy. I felt like i would like something did or how someone was, but I learned one thing. On average it takes someone about 3 months to show who they really are. When I met my girl, at that time I had decided to just focus on my career and money, then I saw her and I knew I couldn't miss out on that feeling I had.
A lot of guys mistake neediness as love.
This☝️ If you 'need' someone you should go do individual counseling to find what is broken in yourself.
Her curves
The intensity of the orgasm and how quickly you want to leave after it.
Romantic love is a hoax. It’s just a bunch of ephemeral chemicals in your brain enhanced by a tendency for co-dependency and the product of a very narrow social script. Maybe your body chemistry never quite got there or maybe you don’t subscribe to society’s prescribed constructs.
When their presence just makes you happy, and you miss them when they aren't with you. But then again, I don't believe in love so what do I know
I was going to write a whole thing but put simply - love is one step before divorce
Go ahead and write ur whole thing as what u said didn't make any sense. Except for self destructive people, maybe.
@sgScix, doesn't seem like it's the case for every couple out there.