What people do?
What people do when they find out they are sexually not compatible after arranged marriages?
Even Jeniffer Aniston isnât appealing once you are married to her for enough days. Marriage is to raise kids, not enjoy sex. Thatâs something you do when single or cheating.
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Why not. Because I donât understand logic of arranged marriages. And most of my Indian coworkers went for arranged marriages. Kinda weird to me.
I think sex is something that you can work upon. And sexual compatibility does not guarantee mental, emotional, financial, spiritual, and family compatibility. And those other things are not easy to work upon. If you find other kinds of compatibility with your spouse then you wouldnât separate just because of sex. You are thinking about marriage as one dimensional
My wife and I werenât compatible and hadnât slept together before marriage. Over the years we talked about it. It took us over a decade to get to somewhere that worked for us both. And now we are quite happy. If I had to boil it down to two things to fix it: communication and commitment to fixing it.
The second part (commitment to fixing) is important. If one of you doesn't care about fixing things (or finds excuses or just doesn't want to think about it), tough luck đł
Strip clubs/massage parlor/escorts. Once you do that, you will realize your wife is much better than paid workers.
Good sex is practice, communication, and compromise. Hard to identify the root cause of the issue without details.
I don't know about arranged marriages, but - struggling for a long time before divorce is worse than just divorcing.
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Why not divorce? Itâs best for both of you.
Why jump to divorce just because of sex? Marriage is way more than just sex.