RelationshipsSep 15, 2019

What's the bay area dating scene like for women?

Got a couple offers out there for >2x my current pay but wlb, relationships etc are more important to me than making $$$. So what's the dating vibe like for women under 30? I'm bi if that matters 🤷‍♀️ TC: 98k 1 YOE

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_cmp_ Sep 15, 2019

Bring your own GF.

Oracle not_larry Sep 15, 2019

How fast can you swipe right?

F5 Networks RRA Sep 15, 2019

"The odds are good, but the goods are odd."

Google hooli.xyz Sep 15, 2019

This quote always gets the upvotes.

Axtria foiba Sep 16, 2019

Because it's fucking true

Amazon beaver Sep 15, 2019

The bay area has a high concentration of a few types of men. If you like forward men, then forget it. Men in the bay area are passive. I've heard my female friends constantly complain about how boring the dating scene. You should visit and check the scene out yourself

Apple MrMuscles Sep 15, 2019

It’s like shooting fish in a barrel. Enjoy yourself 😎

Apple MrMuscles Sep 15, 2019

I missed the part about you being bi. My comment above only applies to men 🤓

Amazon onmgccg Sep 15, 2019

if you’re bi isn’t it pretty nice everywhere, since everyone is potential date?

T-Mobile rgk OP Sep 15, 2019

haha it would be nice if it worked like that

Amazon onmgccg Sep 15, 2019

why wouldn’t it work like that, isn’t it definition of bi? I understand not every individual but not like a hetero where some are ineligible

Cisco shdifigbrk Sep 15, 2019

You can find whatever you want out here. You just have to know where to look. You want forward and direct? Probably not gonna get that from the guy drinking a craft IPA with a hipster beard at your local microbrewery. But you’ll definitely find plenty of them at the local construction company’s watering hole, or the racetrack where the non-awkward engineers take their weekend toys. You want women? Tons out here - take your pick. Bi women have it as easy as gay dudes on grindr when it comes to looking for other women. Like others said, come check it out for yourself. I’ll say this though - there’s a lot more “activity” dating than I’ve experienced elsewhere. Hiking, wine tasting, paddleboards, axe throwing - tons of stuff to do. If that’s your thing great, if not, tons of places to just grab a drink too.

Facebook TheBoz Sep 15, 2019

Sausage fest. You’ll have unlimited hordes of aspie men awkwardly messaging you. Also a strong and thriving gay community. I can’t think of a better place for a bi woman than sf. For a straight man it’s hell.

Cadence pretzle Sep 15, 2019

I am yet to find a place where women found luck in dating.

Uber HvWK68 Sep 15, 2019

Stop dating assholes

T-Mobile QT34 Sep 15, 2019

"If you get kicked out of a bar, maybe they're assholes. If you get kicked out of every bar..."

eBay cnimg3619 Sep 15, 2019

there’s a lesbian bar in sf & plenty of women’s parties

Cisco shdifigbrk Sep 15, 2019

“A” lesbian bar? There are far more than just one in SF lol

Reliable Software YonkoKaido Sep 15, 2019

What do people do in such a bar? For research purposes of course.😏😚😙😏😏