What's the expectation of Night club in the US
Went to night club first time in the US. Surprised to see girls wearing next to nothing grinding their butt to strangers. What's the expectation? Do girls expect guys to get bonner and have sex in bathroom/car or take her home? Are guys expected to ask girls before dance or just go directly behind her and start grinding? Music is absurdly loud so it's almost impossible to talk. Who invented grinding dance movements? That's epic!
Wow. Just wow. Watch what other people do and behave similarly. There is no sex in the champagne room. You might get a one night stand if you’re incredibly hot and a great dancer. But probably not.
Just stick to being a code monkey
I saw “Just stick” and thought your post was going in another direction.
Dude, you seem like someone who’ll end up in sexual harassment if you think every girl is out there to have sex with you. Gtfo virgin
No, I'm not. I'm just observing what happened in the night club. It's wrong to ask why and how things happen/work in public in the US? American culture is mysterious enough. If you can't explain, GTFU
Get The Fuck Up?
Also, if physical intimacy is your desire... Think of the nightclub as a whiteboard interview. You start with a phone interview and maybe a social round. Then you move to nightclub if you pass the screening. You go on a date or drinking first with a girl who likes you. Then you go to a nightclub. Then maybe you are intimate. If you try to just move from random people you meet to sex you will strike out and come off as a creeper. Maybe you will succeed if you are an outstanding candidate. But it seems you are not.
No no no, don't just go and start grinding. Just no. Stand at a distance and dance. If she keeps dancing around you, then get a little closer and dance. Don't forget to smile (not a creepy one, again). Offer her your hand and dance a little together. I hope I got you started and you can go further on your own. Look for signals. Like if at any point, she doesn't pay attention to you, or gets close to another guy, or steps away from you, do not proceed further.
Yes, this is how American women show they are fertile and available. They seek brave and courageous men. So approach slowly and grind from behind. They also love it when you blow in their ear.
Dont forget to spank and throw some dollar bills while you are at it.
Best fake post of the day!
Troll
Not troll. Really curious.