I'm a women in my 30th. Looking much younger, having great body. Was exploring Tinder and stumbled upon a trend of men in their 20th looking for older women. Could think of two reasons: - older successful woman probably has her own appointment which is perfect for guy living with parents/roommates; - older woman is more experienced in sex. What else?
Older women are more desperate and aren't as spoiled.
Desperate for what? You really think we don't have enough sex or attention?
Don't take it personally. It's just that women's sexual appeal drops with age in the eyes of most men. Therefore, with older women, it's easier for younger men to see action. Which after all.... Is kind of the point of tinder. If you can get a younger man to settle down with you, or if we're seeing more and more younger men settle with significantly older women, then there might be something strange afoot, maybe the higher TC of older women like some of the other commenters suggest. But if it's just more younger men being interested in casual encounters with older women, then at least to me, the answer is quite clear.
Older women have better TC.
I don't think that's the reason. If younger men were marrying these women, ok, then maybe the TC is the reason. But just fooling around on tinder with older women? I think it's because older women are easier to get on tinder.
Better TC for women ≠ higher sexual marketplace value.
They could also be bored. It’s pretty common for guys to just up the age limit on tinder and see what happens
Not too b*tchy as well. Easier to have good convos. Many women in their 20s think they are all insta models or something.
They are, just most of them have no followers
First two sentences makes this whole post about your vanity/trolling.
Younger women probably are inundated with messages and so are much harder to date. Plus, maturity and entitlement issues. Ghosting, poor communication, etc. Essentially younger men can’t find younger women interested in them, and want to make it clear to older women that they’re available. I don’t think these younger men actually want something like marriage, though. Probably just LTR and sex. 🤷♂️
I don't have much in common to talk about with younger men as well. They're not mature enough.
It makes sense. Women are typically about 3 years more mentally mature than men. But this maturity gap is also increasing, possibly due to younger men increasingly engaged with non-social avenues of entertainment like video games or porn. Possibly also due to young women graduating from universities and entering the white-collar workforce at larger rates — they’ll soon eclipse that of men at this rate. Either way, young men have it harder in the dating world. And the whole “meninist” and men’s rights, red-pill incel echo chamber which puts the blame on young women, further pollutes the minds of young men and widens the maturity gap.
What’s 20th and 30th ? 🤔
I also wonder which language deals so cavalierly with plurals ("I'm a women") 😂
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Younger girls are pickier and haven't grown out of petty drama yet.
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Looks like this applies to younger men as well 😆