Before meeting my current gf (about a year ago) I used to do a lot of casual online dating, mostly from Tinder and OkCupid. Probably averaged about ~20 new “flings” a year (where a fling means dating a woman for 1-4 times enough to have fun and sex, making sure both parties agree on the casualness of the arrangement as to not hurt anybody’s feelings). It worked out great and was a lot of fun, I have so many crazy stories! This past year has been refreshingly good with my girlfriend and have been monogamous, however I noticed that sex is starting to become much less exciting. I was thinking if it might be worth talking about experiencing something different sexually, such as swingers activities with other couples? Any experiences? Location: Bay Area Age: 32yo TC: ~350k Races: me white, gf Asian
Maybe you're gay?
Haha definitely not. Not that there’s anything wrong with that! I just get “bored” of having the same sex with the same person, and I think that’s a normal feeling.
Have you ever tried pegging?
r/cringe
Grow up and stop judging people from your own screwed up sense of morality.
Ahh, my morality is screwed up... Dude is qualifying other couples for sex by posting his TC. The guy is humble bragging throughout the post. What do I need to do to grow up? Get off Reddit? TC 1,000,000 ¢
First world problems
Not more or less than the hundreds of topics where people ask how to bump their TC from 200k to 400k!
Maybe you need to start thinking about sex in terms of connection instead of the novelty of another hole.
Don’t do it, odds of it working out are low. Background: have joined a swinger couple as a single person. Sex starts to feel boring after a period of time. If you actually communicate and explore as a couple, it gets better after the lull if you dedicate yourselves to it. If you don’t, then you will have sex less and less frequently. The latter situation is the norm, but isn’t preordained. There is very low probability that you can have sex with other people, commit yourself to each other, and not feel jealous. The only way you can accomplish this is by demeaning sex to a purely physical, hedonistic act. There are downsides to that. Jealousy is a human condition.
Finally a mature comment. Thanks bud.
Np. I would also say that whether we like to admit it or not, the decision about sex really resides with the woman. You can make your preferences clear, you can be attentive to her needs and desires, but she will ultimately be the gatekeeper as the lowest common denominator. You have to then decide if that makes you happy enough to stay in the relationship. Sex isn’t the only thing, but it’s an important thing.
Was your gf a swinger before you guys were together?
Were together, you mean?
Fixed, yup that's what I mean
No, none of us has ever tried swinging. I’ve always serially dated (even if very short term of 1-2 weeks flings) and so has she.
Op you should have known the incels on here would be upset
Haha well I posted under relationship, they can ignore the category! They probably have a higher TC than me so it evens out lol
Fuck off
Lol thanks, but why?
Lol. Uber Guy is butthurt! Haha