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When To Quit Women And Try Men?

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I’m getting to a point in my online dating experience where I feel like I should just switch to the male version.

It boggles my mind because I get tons of compliments from women in real life, and have no issues with women through social circles. But when it comes to tinder/bumble I totally tank. When I do match with girls, they are incapable of banter, have bland personalities and are impossible to meet up with.

I wonder if I should just switch to men? Never been attracted to men before but I figure it’s easier than putting up with this bullshit. Anyone with experience in this domain?

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  • Microsoft 4655434b
    “I’m tired of women so I’ll try dick” said no straight man ever... if u like guys look for guys, not that hard...
    Dec 62
    • PeerStreet / Other
      MJ72ha13

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      A holes a hole
      Dec 6
    • Microsoft 4655434b
      Once again, said no straight man ever... rip that closer door wide open & go be you
      Dec 6
  • Bloomberg H1001001b
    Troll
    Dec 63
    • PeerStreet / Other
      MJ72ha13

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      Not trolling, genuinely frustrated with online dating and want to see if anyone has had experience switching sides
      Dec 6
    • Verizon PinkyBrain
      Why men? Perhaps a chimp would better suit you?
      Dec 6
    • Bloomberg H1001001b
      I’m calling trolling here because I don’t know anyone who “became” gay because they got frustrated with the opposite sex. BS.
      Dec 6
  • New tLFu71
    Yup the answer to not getting bumble matches is def taking it in the ass from a guy.
    Dec 62
    • PeerStreet / Other
      MJ72ha13

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      I would be giving, not receiving.
      Dec 6
    • Microsoft Mr.Robot.
      That’s what she said
      Dec 6
  • Amazon XMkC12
    Since you do so well with women in social circles, why don't you just double down on that?
    Dec 63
    • PeerStreet / Other
      MJ72ha13

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      Because I moved to a new city and it’s hard to make friends when you’re not in college/overworked
      Dec 6
    • Google Anongon
      Are there women who aren't taken yet?
      Dec 6
    • Amazon XMkC12
      Sounds like you know what to work on.
      Dec 6
  • AMD / EngKidology
    Why being single is not an option? Do you really need a relationship?
    Dec 60
  • Amazon onAWhim
    Obviously you are interested in men, so give it a try. No heterosexual man not in prison is going to want to try men because he is having a tough time with women.
    Dec 60
  • Amazon wgSD36
    Go on an extended vacation to anywhere were the population isn't 4 guys for every 1 woman. The straight dating scene for men in Seattle is just fucked. I went on a long vacation to Europe did some dating while I was there 2 years later I'm married to a wonderful woman and have a kid.
    Dec 60
  • New / EngTTNT
    Blind has finally hit rock bottom
    Dec 60
  • Google / MgmtLovedoo
    The right time to try is when you ask Blind about something
    Dec 60
  • Apple / Eng
    OxKing

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    Strong and built like an Ox
    OxKingmore
    If woman compliment you in person why not stick to real life dating? You will find the occasional gem from online dating but most women you find there are attention whores and most guys on there are douchebags and/or totally clueless about women. 😎
    Dec 60
  • So I have a friend who kinda did this, he had never identified as queer in any way, but he is an open minded guy and thought he would give it some try.

    He just isn't sexually or romantocally attracted to guys at all. He said he had a great date they got along well, guy knew what was up and the end of it my friend just told him 'ya know this has been fun and you are objectively attractive and all that but I think I'm just not attracted to guys'. You can't fake that, you are or you aren't.

    So unless you are actually attracted to guys... No you probably shouldn't try guys.

    For dating apps: you seem to get a bit of a boost when you first start a profile in terms of getting matches. It seems like these day you either have to pony up money or delete account and start over on occasion. FWIW bumble has had the best luck for me 🤷
    Dec 64
    • PeerStreet / Other
      MJ72ha13

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      How far did he go?
      Dec 6
    • I think they parted ways after s couple hours grabbing drinks. Again it's either for you or it isn't. If you aren't sexually attracted to someone after a couple of hours of drinks, probably not going to ever be haha.
      Dec 6
    • It reminds me also of one time I was having a FMM threesome... And the other guy just couldn't stay hard when I was in the room. He was open to trying it and well guys just don't cut it for him... Perhaps even deflating.
      Dec 6
    • PeerStreet / Other
      MJ72ha13

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      Damn. Maybe I should start with gay porn and work my way up
      Dec 6
  • What are you hoping to get out of your future relationship? The only reason I see to consider switching teams is if you want sex/physical intimacy and feel like you could potentially enjoy that with a man. Otherwise, the many other benefits of a romantic relationship can be found through close platonic friendships and there is no need to switch teams for that.
    Dec 61
    • PeerStreet / Other
      MJ72ha13

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      You’re right, maybe I should get a sex robot instead
      Dec 6
  • Amazon / EngJеff
    Please switch to men. This will reduce competition for rest of us
    Dec 60
  • Twitch @#$_&-+()/
    Haha ur option are designed to just tell u what we did instead of what u should do?? For example, if I never tried men, I can't suggest you to go and at least try men for few months and see
    Dec 60
  • Amazon / Eng
    buttcake

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    Who wants to be my business partner?
    buttcakemore
    Married men do go out with doods and have sex. I was surprised to find that it's a thing. You're not wretched OP.
    7d1
    • Microsoft 4655434b
      That’s called being on the DL, and those married dudes are Gay
      7d
  • Microsoft Mr 🌏
    Am I right to assume you are interested in gay anal sex?
    Dec 61
  • Google topCon
    Op, if you also strike out on dudes, what's next? Animals?
    Dec 61
    • PeerStreet / Other
      MJ72ha13

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      Sexbots
      Dec 6
  • Amazon / EngAm A Bot
    I know many people think Seattle and SF are “bring your own spouse”. In most ways they are right.

    I’m going to offer a creative solution other than trying to switch your sexual orientation. Maximize your mobility and get a job where you can work remotely. Then put your stuff in storage, get corporate housing and try 3 months in various locations. Date around and find someone to settle down with.
    Dec 70
  • Procore / EngLol2018
    What a strange conclusion. Are you attracted to men?
    Dec 60
  • OpenTable Meliodas
    It’s only gay if you bottom.
    Dec 60
  • Troll
    Dec 60

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