When and how did you people decide to get married?what made you to decide on marrying/proposing your gf/bf?

Lust

Knocked her up

This is not a dating site....

TC

When you decide, you’ll know how sure you are. Just make sure that you’ve been together long enough to understand eachother inside and out. Sounds cliche but when you know, you won’t feel uncertain, or anxious, or nervous. It more feels like relief. You’ll know that if you think about the decision in a logical way and still think they’re a good fit, other than just how you feel about them, it’s worth considering.

Just remember one thing: what makes you hesitate at the beginning will make you regret at the end. If you thought it through carefully and don’t have doubts on fundamentals, you’re good

If you’re unsure, you shouldn’t do it.