Who of you guys have been cheating on your spouse/ partner/ bf or gf like Jeff did? Share what happened and why you did/ do it? Difficulty of busy work, long distance or irresistible excitement?
I don’t see the point of cheating. If you no longer have any interest in your partner, break up.
This.
Some times you just want to fuck something new. Doesn’t mean you don’t love your partner, just means you want to try something new.
Emotionally or physically?
Every man, every single moment, in the back of his head is thinking of an affair, that he's never going to have.
I did, multiple times, both emotionally and physically.
How and why?
I can DM you, does that work?
I did but thanks to laws of my faith it was not labelled as cheating, instead it was a right that everyone is the world should I have. That is why I want to spread it throughout.
Care to explain some more?
You and your partner agreeing to an open relationship is different than cheating. I agree open relationships should be an option for consenting adults. Cheating (unless under the most specific of circumstances) is typically bad for a relationship.
I did, multiple times. Look, there are ppl here that claim to be saints. I’m not one of them. I found out my wife had an affair, and that started what I can only describe as a weird, complex snowball of sex and emotion. I started cheating on her compulsively (with women at work and outside). I felt happy, felt ashamed, felt guilty, felt redeemed, felt self hatred, felt a lot of fucking things. Right now, I’m in therapy. I still want to have sex as much as possible, but I’m forcing myself to take a break. I don’t know what’s next, but I mostly don’t give a fuck. All I care about is me. I gotta figure my shit out first and then I’ll figure the rest out. Side note: Bezos can do way better. She’s hideous! Yuck
I’m in same boat but didn’t cheat my wife
Does your wife know that you found out about her?
Should’ve made a poll. I’ve cheated in a previous relationship but felt guilty so I won’t do it again in any future relationships
I cheated which gave me the confidence to end the relationship. No, I didn't get into a relationship with the other person.
Same
Always remember: “Think locally, fuck globally.” You never know who might know your partner so don’t fuck around in your home city. But feel free to enjoy your trips as you wish.
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I hate cheaters in relationship. They are at the same level as politicans.
You sound like a fine bloke 🐨
Just a loyal dude with other personality problems though.