Sorry, if someone else already posted this. TLDR: unless you are good looking (I know it is subjective) Tinder is a time waster based on quantitative socio-economic study. 80% of the women flock to the 20% of the best looking men, while 80% of men compete for the bottom 20% of the women. Tinder has higher Gini coefficient (that measures inequality) than countries with the worst wealth inequality. Link: https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a
It's pretty well known, but it's not like the other 80% have an option, so they try. Jobs and dating have one thing in common, desperation
This is good news. Getting to top 20% is effort. Getting above that is genetic and can’t do much about.
I would say the relationship between them is a combination rather than a sequence. However I can also imagine certain people can get there pretty effortlessly, just being born at the right place & time and with right genetics.
I worked on body n looks and made it . Others can too
Which leads to the next question, how do you get a date outside of tinder?
Grindr
Our society isn’t monogamous even though we’re pretending it is
Just identify as good looking! Problem solved!
Sonic you hilarious lol
What about the gays???
We don’t have these silly problems.
Do a Milton Berle experiment........Do one ad with his face only. Then do a second ad with his giant schlong hanging out (with his hamburger face blurred out). Let's see the quality of attractive women he gets. ....Heck, put his schlong up against a Rob Lowe looking dude and let's compare the women quality. Alternatively, take some Sheldon looking dude (Big Bang Theory show) and have him wear a Google VP t-shirt and another ad without it. Let's see those results too!
Good to be in that 20% thanks mom and dad
Of course you're in that 20% when you tell them you work at Facebook. But then you fall off the map (bottom 15%) when you don't tell them this. 🤔
Umm what? Never say where you work, not classy. Exception is maybe a cool start up but big tech is especially bad so will want to withold that for as long as possible.
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Lol, but it explains why monogamy was/is dominant in the society. Can you imagine the conflicts, if the moral has been free for all?
I don’t think this study relates to monogamy or free for all’s at all