On the surface, I'm a good husband and father. But i suffer from massive porn addiction going back 3 decades. As years passed marriage got boring and mid life crisis set in, I cheated on my wife serially. Last week I left my gmail account unlocked and she searched and found lots of conversations going back several years with dozens of women (mostly escorts). She has been crying and is heart broken since then. She couldn't believe it.She won't divorce me (children) but won't forgive me either.
You cheated with escorts? 🤮
Arrange male escorts for her too...
Pls ask your wifey to DM me. Thanks
Own it and show her your care for her. She will only forgive over time. Trust is ONLY earned.
Can you stop though?
I have tried many times in the past on my own .... this time I think I will because the secret is out.
This time. 😂 I think 😅
You need to join sex addicts anonymous and show that you’re willing and able to change. Also you’ll need marriage counseling of course. Shouldn’t have to say this, but I will just in case: STOP CHEATING. you can never ever do that again. It’s an insult to your wife and marriage. It could help to give your wife access to your location, account passwords, etc. If you want to be really forgiven, you need to really change. If you keep cheating you’ll be caught again.
Wow. Put a whole group of sex addicts in a room together. That sounds like a solution.
You could say the same about alcoholics? I suppose you know of some better alternative?
You are "Good Husband" - but you cheated on your wife serially for several years!!!
OP said "on the surface"
Lol
Leave her for her sake
Can't do that
Then you will watch her slowly unravel and become a shell of her former self. Either leave her, or be the best and most faithful husband you can be and spend every damn day reestablishing her trust for your remaining years together. Those are your options if you want to attempt to repair what you've done to her.
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