Wife fights about almost everything. What to do?
Me and my wife have frequent fights, mostly abour very very silly things.
My wife gets mad really quickly usually for no clear reason and starts yelling at me and saying disrespectful things to me in front of the kids. In the vast majority of the cases, I don't even understand why we are fighting. I usually stay calm and try to say nothing and let her say everything she wants. If I try to say anything she shuts me up and says she doesn't want to hear me.
I am very annoyed by this and don't know what to do. I told her 1000 times that we can discuss anything without having to fight and insult each other; and that it's normal that we disagree sometimes. But, she only increases the level of insult and disrespect time after the other.
I am really concerned about the kids seeing us fight all the time. My wife even speaks to them during fights saying your father is this and this and this (saying negative things about me like liar, lazy, irresponsible, etc.)
Really don't know what to do. I am fed up with being insulted and worried about the kids.