My wife is flirting with a guy on Whatsapp. I mistakenly saw some messages. That’s not creepy because I used her mobile as per her wish to fix some issue of her mobile. I happened to glance at the chats. The other guy sends some kisses and love emotions. She deletes the chat history of this guy. I want to fix this. I love her a lot. I am sure she is not sleeping with him. I don’t want it go to that extend. That guy is also married. She sent him her pic to ask how she looks. I know him and his wife but not well enough. Please help me people. Please give good advice. Update: we have a kid and 7 yrs in marriage.
Don't try to fix it. She's absolutely cheating on you. At least emotionally and prolly physically. Don't hold onto what isn't there. Drop that hoe.
Can’t agree more, been there done that. Cheating is something I personally think can’t be fixed. I divorced my wife after the 2nd time I found out, she kept telling she was just chatting, nothing physical. Maybe this is the line women use when being caught.
You've already lost. Cut her loose. Hit the gym. Prepare for the next chapter in your life.
It is over. I'm sorry. I know it hurts. Good luck buddy.
Message the dude’s wife, and then leave her, no questions asked. No excuse for that kind of activity.
Tough luck! You cant really change a person or the way they behave. Learning this, look out if her new ways are because of anything to do with you; else do everything to cheer up your life again. In the end it might not be worth it.
Confront her. As risky and uncomfortable as that sounds, you need to nip the bud. Be firm but clear that you love her but this hurt you and is not ok. Also take screenshots and send to yourself, just in case.
^agreed. there is a deeper problem than just the cheating you two should address. Confront her
I have taken screenshot of some messages. But it’s just few chats not whole chat. I don’t know how harsh and strict I should sound when confronting her.
Don't listen to those doomsayers, there is always an upside in everything, maybe it's a good way to get into swinging?
This is cheating. Decide if you are willing to forgive her (if she wants to fix things) before having an honest conversation. Don’t act behind her back.
Yikes. Really crazy advice here. Tell her you know. Tell her you love her and you want her back. Tell her what she would need to do to make things work. Hold your ground, don’t compromise one way or the other. Don’t move the goal posts. Wait for her to be ready, and when she is, be ready to receive her back. Marriage is hard work. You can both make it work if you want to.
Message the other guys wife and tell her. Problem fixed
Should I talk to my wife first ? How should I talk.
Dude if she's going to do this once she'll do it twice. Cheating is a personality defect in the cheater. If you remove the other party, she'll find another.