I apologize beforehand if this question offends anyone. My wife randomly asks for my phone, looks at 5-6 previously opened apps, open tabs in Chrome, top 5-6 chats in texts, WhatsApp and Messenger and gives it back to me. When I ask why, she just says I want to know what’s going on with you. Is this normal? Do you go through your spouse’s phone regularly? How do I tell her to GTFO my phone in a nice way. TC: 250k
Omg this is my wife
Sounds like she has 0 trust in you
May be she is bored of her phone and you!
This sounds likely.
Are you honestly asking a bunch of random people on blind advice on how to communicate and talk to your wife?
No, asking if this is normal behavior.
Yes he is! He is asking if somebody had same experience and how they dealt with it.
why are you so concerned unless there is something to hide
Not normal. You give her some reason not to trust you?
Nope, that’s definitely not normal. You need a conversation about trust.
“I can tell you what’s going on with my life, i don’t need my phone to do the talking. Do you have trust issue?”
Control freak and bullying behavior. If a husband did that everyone would call it abusive. So you are being abused.
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Maybe she wants the divorce and is looking for ammunition on OPs phone to help strengthen her case.