I'm so tired of being her goal-chaser. When I had to take a temp job as a contractor, she took up a job in another city, and living together was the least of her priorities. I'm tired of living with someone who can't enjoy the moment.
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I might defend the wife here. I know most others will tell you to move on. But what’s so wrong with what she’s doing? She may want a family, a house, good schools, but more importantly, she wants security and safety. The world runs on money, and you really need a decent amount of savings and retirement etc to get to that point. Her being goal focused may just save you from a living in squalor.
As someone who is old and been married for almost 20 years I will say that if she is your best friend and you love her try and ask her what she really wants.most of the time they could care less about money and just want your time if they do only care about money then yea move on
"could care less"? Really?
Did you talk to her about this? Perhaps she trusts you and the relationship to be strong enough to take more aggressive career goals
Also looks like she's the goal chaser
Well same for me, but the the sex is great so I don't care...
Should have always looked at what I'm getting out of it...
Not enough signals. Pass.
Get off the hamster wheel. Move on with your life.
She might have career goals not just the money. I think you lack ambition and she is better off being with someone who supports her
Rough...
Geeez.
Either she has a problem or just not the right wife for you... sorry to hear this.
Based on just three sentences, you make a judgment on someone’s life/wife. Let’s be positive or at least ask to maintain status quo while commenting on people’s big life events. It can go a long way in motivating someone.