Woman/girl who would make a great wife?

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What are some of the qualities/ personality traits of a woman/girl who would make a great wife

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    • Amazon ijustcant
      This...isn’t how women work. At all.
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    • Barclays PLC
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      I’m guessing you don’t have much experience with women @ijustcant
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    • Amazon ijustcant
      Someone should tell my lady parts that.
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    • New FEiV01
      ijustcant I'm pretty sure that's a double entredre referring to a relationship and experiences in addition to the obvious thing lmao
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    • Very sexist comment. You don’t deserve to have a woman.
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    • Barclays PLC
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      And you don’t deserve to ever be around women or children @JUUL
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    • I agree on the children part. Juul does not want anyone under legal age to be associated with a Juul.

      You sir minimize women to merely their sex organ. That’s sexist. At least a Juul doesn’t discriminate people based on sex.
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    • SAP / Strategy
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      I’d have agreed with that a year ago, but: That’s a function of YOU in the first place. Continue to make her having shit tons of fun with you. You know, that fun that you pulled off to get her into your cave in the first place, mate...juices will flow!
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    • Lockheed Martin Hxvw55
      are all marriages really like this? asking as a young guy
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    • New / Eng RVjn88
      Yes, until you have kids. And then it’s whole new world for you.
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    • Facebook 11040206
      No, all marriages are not like this. Sex has been nothing but better each for my 15 year marriage.
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  • Lockheed Martin Hxvw55
    TC
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      Updated
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    • Verizon / Eng
      woot-woot

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      I think Lockheed means TC as the quality for a great wife 😂
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    • SAP / Strategy
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      What does that translate to, here: Total Commitment :)?
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    • Boeing / Eng gatech
      Lol actually women's TC doesnt mean anything after you have children lol
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    • AMD GDKa06
      @gatech .. why do you say that? You dont have women colleagues that have children? 🤔
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    • Boeing / Eng gatech
      Some female friends that I know do not trust daycare enough or just want to stay with their children. They had good jobs too. One was a lawyer and another one was SDE at Amazon. As long as husbands make enough money to pay off mortgage and save little, they don't mind.
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  • New / Eng
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    Great advice thx.

    Btw what's your take on if she is generally all good but she's making more money than you?
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    • Google / Eng L A R R Y
      No concern whatsoever.
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    • New / Eng
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      What if she has a very high status position and making 3x your income?
      She's generally into money and superficial things.
      And say your income is already okay too.
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    • Crew aXFh35
      If you can still feel like a man around her because she isn't going Dutch or taking care of you like her son, go for it. Otherwise find someone else who makes you stand up straighter. Up your TC too.
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    • New / Eng
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      Great advice thank you so much
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    • New / Eng
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      What are some of the signs that I would have to search within to find out if she would be one of those?
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    • Amazon ijustcant
      Not wanting to be with a successful woman is about your insecurity, not her lack of being great “wife material”.
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    • Google / Eng L A R R Y
      If you're worried about her being into superficial things, then that's the problem, not her TC. But it's important in any relationship (regardless of TCs) to be on the same page about money; that along with kids are two of the main reasons why long term relationships don't work out.
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    • Bloomberg cg_ny
      The more money the better!
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  • Lyft qCbJ38
    Forget about checking boxes. Just find someone that makes you feel gooey inside.
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    • What if they make you feel that way for a couple months and then they disgust you
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    • Davey cCTI36
      That ooey goeey becomes dry after some time for sure ..
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    • Lyft qCbJ38
      Of course the crush might go away, but hopefully you felt gooey because you just really like them for a bunch of reasons. And those reasons will still be there after the intial crush fades.

      Seems like Blind is filled with a bunch of socially handicapped teenagers who only care about TC, but that’s another story.
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    • I liked her because I genuinely thought she was cool and we shared some common values. Turns out she just wanted to be a rich snob who only cares about her goals and wanted someone who will give up theirs to support hers. Leaving that relationship felt wayyyyy better than it should
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    • Davey cCTI36
      I just went through a similar experience as sushi .. initially it was like will do it together...then it became everything about her....and eventually she left without much notice.....I am still recovering but feeling better seeing similar experiences
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  • Microsoft DRrd70
    Not too smart,you don't want your wife challenge you every day, not saying to marry a stupid person, just not a PhD graduate
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    • Amazon ijustcant
      Damn, dude. Insecure much?
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    • Amazon echo $?
      I love having a smart woman (with a PhD) who can challenge me, but she’s my partner and uses her intellect to help rather than irk me. We also home school our kids, so there isn’t anyone I would trust more with our kids’ education than my amazing Dr Wife.
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    • Amazon ijustcant
      Your wife sounds awesome.
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    • Diffbot / Eng
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      I too choose this guy's wife.
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  • Nvidia paidrobot
    Why's it gotta be a woman or girl? Where's your inclusion in relationships for the same gender??

    And during pride month too. So disrespectful.
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    • Snapchat bFCN68
      The question is not discriminating, it's simply specific. Stop seeing sexism and discrimination everywhere, it is disrespectful.
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    • Nvidia paidrobot
      If you want to stop discrimination then mandate all men try men and all women try women #liberalintellect
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    • New FEiV01
      I didn't know I was straight until I tried the other way and I feel 100x more secure now 🤓
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    • Expedia / Eng vacations
      What about a chick with a dick? Do I have to try one of those too? Because I think that would just make me more confused
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  • Microsoft / Eng vXXu41
    So subjective. Not sure why I keep seeing these posts on Blind. I find it a bit off that they all seem to be so similar. The OP is selecting a partner like choosing specs on a new laptop. :/
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    • Google / Eng L A R R Y
      Recommend at least 8GB of RAM for a mid-tier partner.
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    • Amazon аlv
      At least a college degree and average cooking skills if you can’t afford the C-suite range of models.
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  • Google Blame Ruth
    If you have to ask, I have concerns.
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  • Amazon prestige🧐
    DJ Khaled knows
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  • New FEiV01
    Take that schoolboy crush feeling, kill it with fire, then evaluate the person and see how you feel and go from there.
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    • MassMutual / Eng
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      That's what I did. We grilled and interviewed eachother. Revealed all our flaws and baggage.

      At the end of the day:

      What's the worst things about you. What's the worst things about her. Can you both deal with those?

      If you both answer yes - well damn, you just solved that relationship problem.

      BTW.

      Bipolar.

      Run.

      "But she's a 10!"
      NO.

      "But she earns more than me!"
      NO.

      "But .. "
      NO.

      "What if..."
      NO.
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    • New FEiV01
      As someone who is actually bipolar, I think I manage surprisingly okay lmao
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    • MassMutual / Eng
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      Oh.

      Error: User has Disconnected
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  • Davey cCTI36
    Quoting from another googler at a different thread.. you should have "overlapping values and common goals" it's a mutual thing ..not whether she will make a great wife or not.. but also how you feel about her and how much she loves/respects you
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  • Crew aXFh35
    A woman who like men, enjoys their company and thinks highly of them...maybe even respectful of men. None of those ball busters. She should also enjoy being a woman, acting like one, and looking like one too. Sense of morality. Traditional. Sweet but no one's push over. Ultimately all those goey feelings you feel around her should inspire you to become a better man because she deserves it. Happy hunting!
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    • New / Eng
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      Great advice thx
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  • Diffbot / Eng
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    > girl

    Jeffrey Epstein, is that you?
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  • Microsoft megamanX
    Doesn’t have kids with another dude
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    • Facebook some_ds
      Lmfao relevant in the current year
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    • Microsoft megamanX
      Hey man, you get over 35 and this becomes the #1 pain in the ass. I’m not paying for another man’s mistake
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  • Yahoo xCWI25
    It’s illegal to marry children in most states. I suggest you look for a woman instead of a girl.
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  • Amazon ijustcant
    Loves you.
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  • Amazon echo $?
    Guys, the smart, beautiful, confident women are out there and are typically not asked out because they are “intimidating.”

    Instead of feeling threatened by a woman smarter or better than you, think of it this way: in a war between you and the world, what one person would you want on your side of the field of battle?
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    • New / Mgmt
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      Are you a M or F?
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    • Amazon Am A Bot
      I’m betting M. Would a woman compare life to a war or “a field of battle”? Unlikely.
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  • MeridianLink / Product XVrn30
    Look for character. Look at how she treats others. Not you. Because that is how you will eventually be treated.
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  • Amazon hqwp47
    Get this question out of here.
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  • Apple urea
    No baggage, smart, common values
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  • Microsoft SSwM14
    Emotional balance, forgiving and able to laugh together a lot
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  • MeridianLink / Product XVrn30
    And when you are apart someone who would make the same decisions you would.
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  • Amazon echo $?
    Smart, patient, kind, loving, compatible with your faults, and someone you find attractive. What matters most is you choose qualities that last or get better over time.
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