I live with bunch of losers. 1. Mid thirties, no job, neck deep in debt. Has dog , roams around freely. Not sure of meth but pot addict. Kinda worst roommates, who doesnt clean house and throws, pots all over the sink. 2. Lower thirties, I havent seen bigger loser thn this dude. No job, sits home all day long. 90% of time, doesnt even come outta room. I dunno how much debt he already has but if you try to talk, he is full of pride and ego as if he got 7 mil, sitting right in his checking account. Only times he ever had a talk was when he has something to complain.. Typical Big Mouth Loser. Both have absolutely no Social Life or Connection, nor has any support system. Only upside is the house is brand new, gated community and lavish neighbourhood. Moving out soon I am fed up of California and living with these kinda losers and my TC is so low that I cant even afford to get proper house with such a high rents.
So train yourself on spare time, apply somewhere with higher TC and leave. I redirect my anger into motivation. Works
Yea, exactly, U cut myself off these and I come home only to sleep.. 90% time I am off.. Cafe, gym talking with strangers etc.. I already got better offer off California and moving out soon
How long did it take you to find these behaviors? If it was years, faultās on you.
I realized as soon as I moved and its been like 5 - 6 months.. Problem is where I live, its very expensive to rent a house / apartment and my TC is horrible for Cali.
I guess as soon as the lease ends you gotta get out. No other way around it.
Tc or gtfo
Looks like they know what they want and meeting or exceeding their goals, given that they are making rent with described lifestyle. Since you have a different set of expectations, you need to find an out. How old are you? How much is your share of rent? And location?
How do you know theyāre in debt? How did you find them? Why did you sign a lease? Why does it matter if one guy sits at home all day? Itās his life.
I was super hyper ( as some say ) when I moved in and I kinda knew the ower and he ws super chilled dude.. but I wasnt aware he wasnt living here and 2 dumbo lives here, when I signed. So when I joined I talked like I use to do and then I realized what Kinda messed up situation are they in.. They told me their debt.. Well it matters coz I have to see that Loser everytime I come home. You cant defend this second Loser no matter what, coz I am very generous and non jedgemental to an extend I have helped my past roommates and even worked with homeless people for my girlfriend.. but this Loser is of whole diff level
Lol well good luck. And it seems like youāre new to the country. Welcome.
Towards the end of your message, it looked like your frustration is about you and really not about your roommates. Why does other's incapability affect you? Seems like you are the issue.
WTH, hell no, this isnt my first roommates sharing, I had a greatest of all roommates situation before this but that land lord has sold his house so we had to move out. I am still intouch with those fellas and often hang out.
Having bad roommates is a common story; can happen to the best of us. Unless you are on a lease, you can move out right?
moving out is the right answer high rent is not a bad thing, get a small place and donāt let junk accumulate easier to clean too
How old are you?
28
Do you think one of the other guys could have posted something similar? āHey I live with this almost-30 loser roommate who works all day long and canāt even afford a rent while I work literately few hours a weeks and pay my rent just fineā
Loser #3 you
So far but now I am moving out
Only a loser would be willing to live with people u donāt know at all