Would you date someone who rejected you earlier?

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Jul 2 62 Comments

I asked out a girl few months ago and she rejected me then. We stopped texting and hanging out after that. She messaged me today and wants to go on a date.

I don't understand why she would want to date now.

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  • Informatica TC<200k
    NO.
    Jul 2 7
    • Symantec
      donob

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      I am listening... And?
      Jul 2
    • Amazon lxctp
      Someone hurt her and now she’s rebounding with you.
      Jul 2
    • New / Eng
      WjMu41

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      WjMu41more
      You are her plan B. Never become anyone's plan B.
      Jul 2
    • Salesforce B0h3m1an
      Don’t do it. She just wants someone to take her out and feel better about herself cuz her first choice didn’t work out.
      Jul 3
    • Intel Spikiera
      I mean...if you just want to have fun, no strings attached, I would do it if I were you. Date as much as possible until you settle down.
      Jul 3
  • Intel leedle
    Never make someone’s second choice your first option
    Jul 2 1
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      😁
      Jul 2
  • Amazon / Eng eztP64
    Yeah, sure. I'd be somewhat cautious until I knew her intentions. But people change their minds. Maybe she wasn't in the right place before. Maybe she just decided she wants to hook up. Either way, I figure you may as well. What's their to lose?
    Jul 2 5
    • Discover Financial Services qwerty-/:
      What’s their to lose ? Self respect
      Jul 2
    • Amazon / Eng eztP64
      Self respect don't suck my dck tho 🤷‍♂️
      Jul 2
    • Symantec
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      OP
      That's why i ask.

      There aren't any decent girls in bay area.
      Those who are single are not committing anyone.
      Those in relationship are still looking around for more.

      Boys have none to few options.
      Jul 2
    • Discover Financial Services qwerty-/:
      ask her if she is willing to suck your dick and make a decision depending on her answer
      Jul 2
    • Boeing ySWB75
      @qwerty Now that’s very mature.

      @OP I would be cautious though. It could be that she just broke up with someone and you’re a rebound to bring her self-estime back. Then again, what have you got to loose by going out with her and find out?
      Jul 2
  • Taylor Farms azerty_
    No. She has played her hand already once. Sounds like she wants to kill some time with you
    Jul 2 3
    • Amazon / Eng eztP64
      As long as you go into it with the right perspective, what's wrong with killing some time with her?
      Jul 2
    • Symantec
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      Both of you have valid argument
      Jul 2
    • Taylor Farms azerty_
      Lol yeah. If you just want to “kill some time” with her, then go ahead. I wouldn’t consider relationship with her, because down the road she may reject you again and this one will be painful
      Jul 3
  • Hortonworks
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    This happen to me. I end up marrying her. She was pretty and hot.
    Jul 2 6
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      About 5 years ago. I was her backup. She broke up with her boyfriend.
      Jul 2
    • Symantec
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      Does it bother you?
      Jul 2
    • Indeed rara avis
      Was? She didn’t make it? Or she got ugly? lol
      Jul 2
    • Microsoft Sexybeast
      It doesn’t bother you? Knowing that she chose you as a backup, had it worked out with the other guy she would have never chosen you? 😱
      Jul 3
    • Amazon echo $?
      Same thing happened to me. That was 18 years and 3 kids ago. Still happily married. My wife has also aged beautifully, both in looks and in personality.
      Jul 5
  • Hortonworks
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    Timing was not right. She was secretly dating someone else. Now they separate.
    Jul 2 1
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      It's a maybe. I knew she did connect with a few guys on dating apps but not sure if she was dating anyone long enough.
      Jul 2
  • Synopsys brightday
    It takes a lot of guts for someone to text you after rejecting you. To admit that she made the wrong choice earlier. So if you're curious why she's interested, just text her and ask her!
    Jul 3 1
    • Microsoft ldld
      Op Is just a boy, he is not ready for mature women. He just came to show this case because his ego is inflated, but won’t do anything else.
      Jul 4
  • Medallia Maximus8
    If you really like her why not? And you could talk about it.
    Jul 2 2
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      I don't have any emotions about her anymore. It's pretty much like being stranger.
      Jul 2
    • Medallia Maximus8
      Then you have the answer.
      Jul 2
  • Practice leetcode more if you got rejected
    Jul 2 0
  • Google flooloo
    US-West died and now she's redirecting to US-Central. Don't let her failover to you. let the ship sink
    Jul 3 1
    • This is the type of high quality content I come here to Blind for
      Jul 3
  • Google / Eng 🍑☁️
    It's important to know why she changed her mind. If it's cause she was already seeing someone else? Then she liked you enough to reach out when that changed, which would be a good sign.

    Changed her mind for a more arbitrary or stupid reason? Huge red flag; run away
    Jul 2 0
  • OSIsoft / Product killerwhal
    Who cares. Is she hot and does she give it to you? If yes and yes then u go all in baby.
    Jul 2 0
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    • This
      Jul 2
    • Microsoft ldld
      Not this. Be a man, not a boy.
      Jul 3
  • Samsung statarb
    There are places where bears rummage garbage cans because they have seen humans discard food there on occasion.

    These bears were once hunter gatherers until they started waiting for left overs, knowing fully the supply wasn’t guaranteed. Do you want to be one such bear? Why don’t you go fishing the rivers or raiding a honey comb? It’s fun, you improve your skill and earn supper every single night.
    Jul 5 1
    • New / Eng rresoisnco
      Let me raid your honey comb
      Jul 5
  • IBM xlajduf
    Do it. Leave after u find a better one
    Jul 2 0
  • New SgJq15
    She is hungry and needs free dinner
    Jul 3 1
  • Intel Act2016
    Who cares why she wasn’t interested. Screw it up by asking you will, dumb you will be. Laid you won’t

    Would you rather If she was dating somebody else jumped you at the same time. Ooo great start. How about enjoy the timing.
    Jul 3 0
  • Google / Eng
    चाचा चौधरी

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    Pump and dump. You're welcome 🤓
    Jul 2 0
  • New / Eng rresoisnco
    I'll take her if you don't
    Jul 2 0
  • Microsoft ldld
    Don’t judge a person’s past. Only dumb people stay stuck in the past. If she seems an interesting person, go ahead and give it a try. Otherwise, move on.
    Jul 2 0

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